he's confused if he wants to be in a relationship?

he was obviously hurt by his ex and now he's scared of a new relationship

you need to give him time, prove to him that you won't hurt him and not all girls are like his x

when he starts to trust you he'll prob want a relationship

just be patient and caring with him

Good Luck

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I will decode his message to you:

He wants to make out with you, but not be tied down by having you for a girlfriend.

When a guy wants to be with only you, there's no confusion involved. Confusion means doubt, so translate: "I'm just confused if I want a relationship" to mean "he KNOWS at this very moment that he doesn't want one."

This doesn't mean that you two won't wind up together in the future, but do not put your dating life on hold waiting for him to decide that he want's only you. 1) if you continue to date, you might fall in love with someone who's ready to fully love you back now. 2) "confused" guy may want you more if he worries that you're meeting and dating new guys.

Good Luck

Honestly it doesn't seem like he is all that interested in something serious. Before things get more complex I would recommend cutting things off. He seems to be very unstable and that is the last thing you need in your life. A guy like that just needs time it seems as though he may not be over his ex. I would pull myself away from the situation before I got sucked in further. Peace and Love.

anytime ive ever used that line on someone its been because i didnt really like them as much as i thought they liked me but i wanted to still maintain their interest while also keeping my eyes open for something better.

what you are supposed to do all depends on how much you want to wait and possibly be strung along.

never make someone a priority when they only have u as an option.

to be honest, if he said he doesnt have feelings for you, i woul back off. And please NEVER ask a guy "what do you feel about me" or anything along those lines.

if he really liked you, you woulnt have to ask.

you'd know.

id keep lookin. to traslate "i dont know if i want a relationship" = i dont want to be wwith you/i want to be single and have fun w other girls/ i dont want to sound like a dick and let you down gently.

Just wait

All men are liars!... Especially college students.... If he is making out with you as soon as you get to his house.. thats means he only wants you for sex.... If you are looking for just that then have fun....

hes jus a lil unstable and not ready to trust another chick right away jus wait till hes's ready and show him he can trust you and you wont hurt him.

probably just show him the good side of yourself, and show him that u wont cheat.