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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

Should I tell my friend that her recent plastic surgery has made her look like Bruce Jenner?

I mean, she was never the prettiest girl in the world. I actually felt sorry for her and took her under my wing so that she could have the benefit of hanging out with my circle of attractive friends. She quickly grew on everyone and sort of became our token "Plain Jane", it made us all feel good to be so benevolent towards her.

However, since this surgery, I really don't have the heart to be seen in public places with her, poor thing. What if people think we're lovers or something? My circle of friends has quickly blacklisted her and now it's out of my hands.

Do you think that if I explain that her similar appearance to Bruce Jenner is limiting her social options, she'll rethink it and have it corrected? I'm just worried for her sake.

Update:

Snack Daddy: I am certainly referring to the modern day Bruce. The one I have the pleasure of seeing clips of every weekend on "The Soup"

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I heart you for trying to be such a good friend to someone with such obviously poor judgment. Why on Earth she wouldn't have come to you for advice in the first place before considering plastic surgery is beyond me. I think you have done enough to help this unfortunate girl and if she was dumb enough to make herself look like Bruce Jenner, well, she can just go to the dyke bar and start her new life tomorrow! Good riddance to bad rubbish!

  • 1 decade ago

    Are you SERIOUS? I personally would tell her with love but I don't know if that will work for you because it sounds like she's nothing but a project for you guys. Nobody deserves that. I'm really appalled that this is even a serious question let alone that people like this really exist outside of tv. Let's hope that you are never in a situation where your "beauty" on the outside is not so appealing to others - there's always a possibility that can happen.

    Anyway, if you truly care about her and are a true friend, honesty should be on your list qualities in your friendship. But if this relationship is superficial and all you're worried about is how people are viewing YOU, then you should just separate yourself from her now so that she can start surrounding herself with people who care about HER.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    I do not agree with plastic surgery unless a person has a serious deformity, I think it's ridiculous, but many women and men undergo that kind of useless surgery. The only thing it does is make a rich doctor even richer...

  • 1 decade ago

    Which Bruce Jenner?

    The 2009 freakish looking one that could be used in the next Night of the Living Dead movie or an earlier one say vintage 1980's when he still had a brain.

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  • 1 decade ago

    You should tottally be honest with her, imagine how horrible it would be for her if people are always talking about her behind her back. That is what a true friend would do, and by doing that not only will it help her but it will also help you, and your group of 'attractive' friends. She probably would not take it that bad. At first just be like it in a joking way, then confront her, saying something like,' Maybe you can get it fixed? You want to look as young as possible! (nudge, nudge, wink, wink.)

  • If your her friend why are you talking about her like that? Your token plain jane? If she is your friend her looks shouldn't matter. You don't want to be seen in public places with her? I see your best answers are in spiritual and religion or what ever. God made everyone beautiful and it sounds like you need to accept her the way she is or stop being a Fake friend. Sounds like your the poor thing!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I have a friend just like that.

    Looks like he fell out of the ugly tree, and hit every branch on his way down!

    I use his photo to scare my children if they won't go to bed.

    Seriously, he has a face like a Bulldog chewing a wasp.

    I don't want to just cut him dead, because he makes me look so cool standing next to him, besides which, he is really rich, his dad is some kind of doctor or something, but the genes missed my friend cuz he is reeeely stupid too, really easy to get him to pay for everything when we go out anywhere.

    I am not speaking out of turn, his own mother admits she used to feed him with a catapult when he was smaller, (his face used to put her off her own food)

    People treat him like he he is EDWARD jenner,

    Come to think of it, smallpox was certainly more popular in its day, and better looking!

    So no, just keep seeing her, take what you can get, but if the Golden pig stops bringing home the bacon, drop her like a stone!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    My dear (casts eyes to ceiling) I was always the resident "Plain Jane". But I made up for it with wit and compassion for all.

    Looks fade, without a good personality, no amount of "work" is going to make things better.

    Pretty is as pretty does...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Poor Bruce. He oughta' sue his plastic surgeon. And they need to call that AWFUL "reality" show "Krushed by the Kardashians." What a bunch of trashy biyetches all those women are!

  • 1 decade ago

    i wouldbnt tell her as i dont rlly have the heart to do that but just try to hang out with ehr less often. also these people that are calling you shallow and things like that are stupid, there just tryng to act smart by telling you that everyone is equal, donate to charity everyday. gay things like that. if u wanted to be criticized then you should just go onto jeremy kyle or trisha

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