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need help for are first date i really like her need help on pricing and if you think it's two much?
I am taking this girl out on are first date can you tell me if this sound good or not this is just my idea pick her up with a limousine and take her out to dinner I was thinking more like the Wrigley mansion club in Phoenix, AZ what do you think. And just for the record haw much do you think it would cost two make reservation and a private room you now wear it’s just me and her at the Wrigley mansion club
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- runic111Lv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
Wow dude, that sounds expensive! Just plain and simply find out what she likes to do for fun and take her somewhere like Olive Garden and whatever other activity she likes. FYI not a good idea to over do it on a first date.
- 1 decade ago
I think thats a little much. Don't go overboard, she might get freaked out. Otherwise that sounds pretty epic. Id do that for like a 1 year or 2 year maybe if everything was going well.
Also, by doing that on the first date you give her expectations your gonna drop a huge wad of cash every time you take her out. You don't want her to be disappointed on date 2, and leave yourself with an empty wallet.
Also, some girls take such a thing the wrong way, some think that if you did something that nice for them you might be expecting something in return, potentially sexual. So just be careful with the vibe your putting off.
Go to the mansion club and see what people are wearing, wear something similar to that. Make sure you match, don't smell (smell good for that matter), make your hair look good, and just be legit.
- GinaLv 41 decade ago
Y do you try to impress???? don't do that, you want to make sure she is not a high maintance kind of girl go with the simple "Panda Express" gawd I miss that yummy...they don't have one this way I use to live out there in Mesa and know Phx well now I am 1300 miles east, ok anyway, since your wondering about cost, keep it simple no limo sweets, and go for the simple first date what happens if you don't like her and all that money wasted you could have spent on yourself..HA now, this is what ya do, you pick her up, ya go out to dinner, then go to the mall if your5 young go to game works always a cool place or hey what about that rainforest cafe in the mall always cool..just keep it simple you will know soon..and ya know what, most girls these days are not impresses as to how much you spend on them, its the attention and love you give em' trust me keep it simple
- Anonymous1 decade ago
For the first date its too much. Once you do this she will expect any other date to be more beyond. There are many other things you can do. You can never go wrong with dinner and a movie. If its weather appropriate, maybe a picnic in a romantic setting during sunset?
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- tsLv 41 decade ago
I think this would be trying too hard and you might scare her. For your first date you might want to find out what she really likes and then plan your date around that (for example, if she likes flowers find out if there is a botanic garden in your local area and take her there/if she likes baseball take her to a minor league baseball game) this way you're having fun and there isn't all that pressure of trying to make everything perfect.
Unless you want to make a grandiose gesture in the hopes that she will feel obligated to you in the carnal sense, if that's the case forget the whole thing and get therapy.
- 1 decade ago
no limousines on the first date. That'd freakin weird me out. I'd probably think you were a big nerd actually like you were trying to impress too hard. I hate when guys try to go over board. If it's your first date make it simple but classy! Don't "show off" Just be relaxed and cool. Although it would be nice to go there for sure!
- 1 decade ago
It might be a little overwhelming for her. if its going to be formal, make sure she knows, otherwise she may come under dressed and feel uncomfortable. If she's not going to know its going to be formal, don't dress up any more than you think she will.
However, if you know she's not going to be uncomfortable just because she feels like she's not suited for the occasion, then in a girl's eye, there's no such thing as too much, and if you go all out you two will probably remember a nice night like that for quite some time to come.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
thats tooo much for a first date! i think a movie and playing some pool will do the trick, or go eat u want to know about her too just remember girls like it when u r urself n not what u cant b. open the door , pick her up with ur car, maybe a nice flower just one dont get all the dozen here. u know b a gentlemen.
- 1 decade ago
GGEEEZZZ! well i don't know what type a girl she is but i think something that was from the heart is better than any price tag on a date... if i was a guy in this situation i would think of something that i remember just from a small conversation we were having (girls love it when guys remember the littles things they say) jus as an example say she always loved dolphins... get her a dolphin stuff animal and take her to an aquarium... you know what i mean. its great that you are really trying to impress her but think of something with your heart, not your walet.
P.S. always keep her on her toe... we love suprises!
- Arctic FlameLv 61 decade ago
That's a lot for a first date. Just pick her up in your own car and take her out for the day. It doesn't have to be fancy and you don't have to spend a fortune. It has to create a good lasting memory. That's all that matters.