Poll: Who Makes the First Move Guy or Girl?

Well i say girl but it doesn't really matter, but miki you should have at least sat beside her... =/

Normally its the guy, but it depends on the girl,

for example shy girls would prefer it if the guy made the first move,

but if your going out with a confident girl, who is perhaps a little more forward she would probably make the move.

But on the whole, the guy makes the first move, from a girls point of view it shows dominance, confidence, like you want her. So your not shy and waiting for her to do it.

But don't worry what anyone says, its when your ready and she is, don't be pressurised into doing anything just because yours or her friends want you to.

But with things like calling, its always nice when the guy calls you- makes you feel like her actually likes you, and thinks about you.

Hope that helps :D

LAME! Her friends are lame. It's not the girl or the guy, it's whoever feels comfortable enough to make the first move, and no it's not easy, but one of you has to get up the courage to do it or it's never going to happen, wether its the girl or the guy doesn't matter, gender makes no difference, we aren't in the 50's anymore.

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and to answer Peach's question: I'm a lesbian too and so far it's come down to whoever is comfortable making the first move.

Its all in the body language, if you feel like you want to kiss her then start to move in if she doesn't catch on just be forward with her and ask her if she would like to kiss you. Most girls like it when the guy is open and honest. And sometimes the girl will make the move first if she doesnt feel like the guy is going to make it when she wants the move to be mad :)

Guy. It doesn't have to be way back in time or anything, but if guys are expected to take the lead, make sure your girl is ready, then you make the first move.

Guys should make the 1st move in my opinion

Now here's a question, im a lesbian, who makes the 1st move?! :S

Being the 21st century, and that chapperones died along with the victorians, I would say that it doesnt bloody matter.

Guys THINK they make the first move

But it's the seductive looks us chix give you guys ;D

It doesn't really matter who makes the first move,

Its not necessarily your place to, but most girls assume guys will.