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Does she just want to be friends?
Ive been seeing this girl for about two weeks now. Ive made her dinner and she has made desserts and etc. She doesnt mind me putting my arm around her in public or in the movies and i kissed her on the cheek and she didnt mind that either. So i decided that i would ask her to be my girlfriend. Everything inside of me said dont ask but i had to so that i wouldnt end up in the friends zone. So i told her that i really like her and thought she was an amazing girl to be with and asked her to be my girlfriend. She said that it was really sweet of me to ask and that she really liked me too but she wants to take things really slow...what does this mean?? She isnt interested in having a boyfriend now or just wants to be friends??
i probably should have mentioned that she has been engaged before.
20 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I think that at this time she may just want a friend. I don't know anything about her but if she's newly out of a relationship that could be a factor? I would give it a little time but if things go on for a long time with her not interested in you I would move on, because it's not worth killing yourself over her if she's not interested as much as you are ya know?
good luck!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
She's not interested in having a boyfriend at the moment is what it sounds like she may really want to take things slow, BUT if u are having sex then she may very well be seeing a couple others Just take things slow she may have other male friends so don't get too wrapped up in her until she makes it official because that is what u really want. If u to get intimate and she still doesn't want to commit she may be in a relationship already or still inlove with someone else make sure you are not a rebound u don't want to get your feelings hurt
- 1 decade ago
well if she's had problems in the past with guys, she might want to know you're actually worth the time, i think she likes you but just doesn't want a boyfriend at the current moment, but keep on being the same way and dont give up, so when the day comes that she wants a boyfriend you will be there, unless you don't really like her.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well, since she has been engaged before, she has been hurt badly already so that is why she wants to take it slow. She just wants to be friends for now because she knows how much it hurts to get broken up.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
if shes got a new bf in the next maybe month that isnt u then shes just not interested and wanted to let you down easy and not hurt your feelings, but its also possible that she really meant it and she wants to maybe have a future relationship with you buit she wants to wait it out to see more of what youre like. depeneds on the kinda girl she is good luck to you
- 1 decade ago
hmm......that IS complicated! I think she may think that your wanting to have her as a gf and then get married..........and she's probably thinking that shes not ready for marriage yet. So she decided to let you know that in a mix message. Just leave the gf issue alone and keep hanging out and getting to know her even more. Its ok if you guys are friends.....ppl who get married, often marry they're best friends! just relax and leave the question until a later time. :)
- 1 decade ago
sounds like what it is, maybe she just is confused and is really trying to figure out if she wants to be friends or take it further. Give her another 2 weeks and if she still isn't sure than just move on
- 1 decade ago
unfortunately i think you were either in the friends zone when it started or you went there quickly by not moving faster. i think she is just buying time to have a great friend like you that she enjoys until you decide you cant be just friends.
- 1 decade ago
Show her to the door and move on to the next. If ur doing all of that and she still doesnt want to be your girlfriend cut ur losses.
- 1 decade ago
uhmm.. she just wants to take is slow for now. did she have a bad relationship before?.. if so, she really needs to take a break n get her life back together before getting into another relationship