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I caught my partner exchanging numbers with some girl?

I was so devastated by what i saw, my partner and i went to a friend's party and everything was going well until i decided to go to the bathroom where i caught my partner with some girl exchanging numbers i was so shocked didn't know what to do, i asked him he said he knows the girl she's an old friend and said i should ask her, well i did but it was a different story she told me she doesn't know who he is and he's been following her around. I really felt like a fool i went back to him he said let us not talk about it anymore, we should just drop the topic. I'm so hurt and disappointed in him i trusted him but what i saw really hurt me...

Update:

Yet we've been living together for the past 3years and have a 2 year old son whom he is so fond of, not only he betrayed me, and the poor little boy too things are so tense at the moment and my baby can see that, we are really hurt..

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Women do have great understanding about men. And no wonder I have also asked myself 'WHY A MAN CANNOT BE SATISFIED WITH ONE WOMEN'?Why in the world would he cheat on me, this seems to be a question that crosses the minds of women who are cheated on.

    I feel that there is a part of men that they do not completely understand themselves. Being unsatisfied and feeling less stimulated by the current relationship is sometimes a problem. A crisis of bringing back the old days could pin point this problem. Wanting to feel younger and forget the daily grind brings upon him pressure and causes men to cheat

    Almost all men know that cheating is wrong, yet many they still do it. Men will blame their reasons for cheating on their genes and their necessity to reproduce and of course, the punch line - I AM A MAN.

    However, aren’t we suppose to be further evolved than a chimp? Shouldn’t we be able to control our bodies through our minds and conscious decisions? Apparently not always (In case of men)

    Some also like the excitement of having a secret affair, which is way out of line.

    There are other reasons why men cheat is because they do not take their relationship serious. This could be that they feel like their spouse or girlfriend, is not smart enough to figure them out.

    Most men cheat because of a bored relationship,and most men are single minded and do not realize the consequences of their actions.

    Difficult problems sometimes require challenging solutions.

    As said above, in their hearts and minds, men know that cheating is wrong, yet often their egos, their physical needs and, quite simply, the temptations overrule their hearts and minds and it is difficult for even men to figure out what they did and why they did?

    In this circumstances, such as your's what you, the two of you, have to decide is whether you want to repair the relationship or end it.

  • 1 decade ago

    He's a cheater, and will always be. Are YOU willing to share him with another woman?

    If you are, then you can play the same game he's doing since you are fortunately UNmarried to him.

    Give out your phone number too. Don't set your hopes and your future with this partner, date others who could be the potential Mr Right for you.

    If you don't want to share him, then leave him and move on, but continue dating,

    If he questions you about it, tell him you do not wish to discuss your personal life with him just as he does not wish to discuss his personal life with you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ah that's really terrible, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I can imagine how you felt. Is is not better that you found out now though rather than when you're even more serious about him? I know that's no consolation but please don't go out with this guy. Leave him to his own devices and take this time to get over the hurt he has caused you and then move on. x

  • 1 decade ago

    He didn't want to talk about it anymore because he knew he was busted! I wonder how many times you have fallen for his lame excuses and how many times he's gotten away with playing you. You need to find someone faithful. He had a story for you all lined up as soon as he was busted, sure sign of a player. Good luck!

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  • Orla C
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    He's telling you one thing, she's telling you another, and he's trying to avoid talking about it.

    I'd say the writing's on the wall. I am sorry, you must feel so awful. It sounds like he can't be trusted. Let him go and move on.

  • LeeH
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You should do a 3-way with both of them.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He lied to you......that should set alarm bells ringing. That's awful and i know its hard but ditch him. It would be harder living with a liar and a cheat.

  • 1 decade ago

    Gee, it is time to move around, you don't deserve to be disrespected like that! If he is showing signs of distrust already it will only get worst.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    go sleep with his best mate and father and then take his house car and pension

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He wants his cake and eat it 2. he is a loser. you should not waste your time with him. you deserves better.

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