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Married,had a miscarriage 6 mts ago,my husband doesn't want a baby yet,how to lower my desire of having a baby?

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    Depending on how badly the loss affected you, your husband is just wanting to protect the woman he loves from any undue emotional pain from a possible, other, loss.

    Bear with him and give him time. Show him when you have gotten past the pain of your loss. For which, I am, truly sorry.

    I have been through this and so has my daughter. Understand, that your husband felt a painful loss, also. You weren't alone. Acknowledge his loss to him and both of you take time to heal. He will be ready for another baby, as soon as you...truly are ready....emotionally. God bless you.

    Source(s): RN & abnormal psych major
  • 1 decade ago

    I miscarried twice before getting pregnant with my first daughter. I thought I wasn't going to ever be pregnant during that time and was very depressed. I remember my husband at that time saying to me we don't need to have children we are so happy just the two of us. I knew in my heart I could never stay married without children. Instead of picking up on that and realizing we both had different views about our lives I kept trying and now I have two wonderful children and I am getting divorced. You have to listen to people and what they are saying. My husband really didn't want them and I really wasn't that happy with him.

    Make sure this is what everyone wants. Having a miscarriage is hard I know but rushing into something he's not ready for is going to be even harder. Enjoy just being the two of you. Make sure your solid and when you do decide it will mean so much more. Good luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    My cousin's wife miscarried about 3-4 years ago and still haven't tried. She was about 5-6 months long when she miscarried. Miscarriage can take a lot out of some people. Just give it time. Communicate.

  • salvi
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    you ought to get appeared at and do something which will advance your fertility to make up for his subfertility. My husband has a low count huge style (varies between 9 and 20 million/ml) and we've a splash boy who develop into conceived needless to say. i could had a laparoscopy and dye 4 months earlier and it style of feels that many women all of us is extra fertile after a lap + dye, so perhaps the advance in my fertility made up for what he lacks? The dye is asserted to flush your tuves out so possibly it made it much less annoying for the sperm to get with the aid of. we are suffering TTC #2 and have been for terribly nearly 2 years now, with any luck going to objective IUI in December. i'm frightened that my son develop right into a one-off and we are going to on no account do it returned. They do supply everyday suggestion mutually with positioned on boxers, no warm tubs, no smoking, take zinc and different supplementations and so on and yet theres no scientific data that any of this works. . .

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  • 1 decade ago

    Not wanting a baby yet should be a mutual agreement between you and your husband, it is only when you have this agreement that your desire for a baby can be lower.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    First, let me say I am sorry for your loss. Communication is key here. The two of you must come to some compromise on this situation. Both of you may consider some counseling. He may be afraid of loosing you as well as a second child. Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    my wife has had 4 tubal pregnancies (2 with me) so I kinda understand what you're going through. you may need to get your husband to go to counseling with you to sort out both of your feelings...good luck to you both

  • FALCON PUNCH!!!

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