want my boyfriend back - after I left him, got married, and got divorced!!!!?

sorry , ignore all the horrible answers bfore me. i know you must be upset right now.

talk to him and reassure him. itl be hard for him. is he asian too..i know asian men find it harder to trust women for some reason than western men..sorry...

talk to him. and be there for him. dont turn your back again now. jus be ther, even if he doesnt want you there, be there. and try to convince him your back for good..( heheh got take that song in my head now)

write him a letter, do whatever it takes cos i think he still lvoes you.

so id advise you to stick around him, talk to him, write to him and just be there 4 him. and if its meant to be, itl be.good luck...xx

and some answers here will be biased, cos they are not asian and dont understand. so ignore them. theres a difference between forced and arranged marriage, and if urs was just arragned then thats good. at the end of the day you made the decision to get married. maybe u coudlve wait urself until you were 24...or whatever....if you had a choice in the matter then....?

AND did you bf say to you. that hel marry you in such and such years...if he didnt promise marriage in the future...then i see no point otherwise.

"He left his wife" doesn't provide enough infos... Remember Italian laws about divorce are very different than the one you may be used to know. They parted by mutual consent? He's simply gone away? The main concern is, especially if divorce doesn't rely on agreement, alimony, maintenance are an issue; even more, the person found responsible for he break-up can be charged for this. Good news: in Italy a person can hardly keep tied his/her spouse by "refusing to sign up the divorce": in fact the judge acknowledge the marriage is over. In order to determine which person is responsible for the break-up (if any), rules are again different in Italy: for instance, if a man find her wife in bed with another man, that doesn't make her automatichally guilt: the judge have to determine if the fact she had an affair with another man is the cause of the end of the marriage or she had an affair with another man *as a consequence* of a yet failed marriage. If the last apply, she's not charged for. So, it's not o difficult to get a divorse in Italy, but be sure about what happened and why between your b/f and his wife.

Partners are not matrials that we can dump them and what them back. I have seen many cases of (ladies) who become jealous when they divorced (ex) husbands get a partner. It is clear signal that people are not honest with themselves.

I do not quit understand the pressure of parents to choose a mate for you in today's world, particularly if you live out in West.

Cjhoosing respect to your parents in a degree that you married someone you did not love, is betrayal of yourself, your previous boyfriend and the person you married with.

Unfortunately, you proved yourself someone to be influenced easily.

There are things that our parents can decide or recommend for us, but those things does not include a life partner

Well things are going to be different from what they were but if you give it time and work together things should return to the way they previously were. Don't expect things to go back to normal right away though, things for the moment are difficult but if he really wants you then there's nothing to worry about.

Did you tested Pull Your Ex Back technique? Try on this website : http://www.exrecoveryformula.com/ . This might definitely help you!

All you can do is try.Go out and see what happens,but you can't expect things to just pick up where you left off.

Just give it some time to work out. If it is meant to be it will be.

i agree with the guy above me crying lol he is not a man to cry about a women hes to femine

dream on

hahahahaha chrys