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WHAT DO GIRLS LOOK FOR[girls]?

ok ladys when you want a relationship and what not what do yo want out of it......do you girls look for personality or looks or what so please tell me i need to know

and be honest dont lie to your self

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    There are a lot of girls that date the hot guy no matter if they're jerks or not. Many of those girls are just as superficial as the guys. With me, I think a guy is hot get to know him and if hes a jerk I ditch him. If hes a guy that isnt that great looking but he has a great personality I'd rather be with him than a jerk. Currently, I got lucky and I found a guy who I think looks amazing who is also a really nice guy but knows how to joke around with me. Personality is key with me but looks are nice but definitely is not everything.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Personality. :D I think that personal qualities are the best that one can ever want. I mean, if you ONLY go for looks... your relationship will probably last nicely for 50 years or so (maximum): everyone gets old and you are most likely to get bored of the person you're with when they don't look attractive anymore. :/

  • 1 decade ago

    You need a guy who initially attracted with you, i.e. who looks appealing or at least looks your type (differs form girl to girl), and then in the relationship you need someone who is willing to do give and take and listen and be committed.

    For me personally, I also need someone who is smart, likes to read, go for hikes, travel, no small minded, searching, and isn't terribly messy!

  • 1 decade ago

    being perfectly honest if i like the guy then im not bothered what he looks like but if they are really ugly or super fat then it sounds shallow but its a major turn off. dont get me wrong i love a bit of puppy fat x most of all i love a guy who makes me smile x a girl will fall in love with you if you make her laugh, treat her like a princess ( not as in buy stuff but romanticly) and respect her. most important is to just be you!

    i fel in love with this guy- because every day he made me laugh , and told me i was beautifull , oh- and dont just call a girl sexy or fit. because it means more if you tell them they r gorgeous. you guys dont actually think about things like that but to girls they can mean the world.

    Source(s): i am a love guru lol jk
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  • 1 decade ago

    Ok the obvious first thing i look for is looks. I wont lie.

    Then if he is a *** then no further, but it is mostly personality i go for. Never just looks. I love a guy who is not scared to show how they feel. nothing worse than a guy who blocks ever feeling he has.

  • 1 decade ago

    honestly,

    -he has to have a good body. what ever it takes, steroids and muscle protein drinks, doesnt matter.

    -try to sit out in the sun, loose those tan lines and white thighs..

    -NO greasy hair, or hard crispy gel.

    -sence of style. like what matches what. and clothing that actually fits properly.

    -dont try to be gangster, or try to smoke or sell drugs to be cool.

    -neon jeans that are smaller than my little sisters.. not so cute.

    -is into sports, skating, boarding, surfing, biking, football, baseball, soccer. nothing weird like under water basket weaving.

    -wears vans.

    -once again, has a nice body

  • 1 decade ago

    I want someone who will walk besides me and won't be embarrassed to say he love's me in front of his friends. I personally look for the personality in a guy, but it's better if he's cute!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    looks is really just an attention getter, but i wouldn't date a guy who only had that going for him. If he can make me laugh, keep a conversaton, and respects me then i would be more wanting to date him or at least be friends with him.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i want someone who's got it all, but not 100% in each category

    like is decent looking/attractive, but not so hot i'd be worried about him being a total pig.. smart to make life easier, but not too nerdy.. healthy, funny, with similar interests.. and with a bright future (hard worker and not lazy)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, I'm attracted to ***holes and I wouldn't have it any other way.

    No really, um...

    Aggression.

    Spontaenity.

    Crazy good in bed.

    Space -- not calling every ******* hour.

    Wit.

    Charm.

    Nice hands.

    Hygienic.

    Sadist tendencies are a plus.

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