God damn it..Nobody wanna ****** answer?

My dear DJC.....

Well...this "poor" guy sure sounds like he has a personality disorder called: Narcisstic behavior.....which is one of the severe types you can deal with due to the extreme focussing on the <SELF> ! Such people are really hard to get along with, honey ! Let me give you some more details on such a behavior:

Narcissistic personality disorder is a condition characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, need for admiration, extreme self-involvement, and lack of empathy for others. Individuals with this disorder are usually arrogantly self-assured and confident. They expect to be noticed as superior. Many highly successful individuals might be considered narcissistic. However, this disorder is only diagnosed when these behaviors become persistent and very disabling or distressing.

Complications:

Vulnerability in self-esteem makes individuals with this disorder very sensitive to criticism or defeat. Although they may not show it outwardly, criticism may haunt these individuals these individuals and may leave them feeling humiliated, degraded, hollow, and empty. They may react with disdain, rage, or defiant counterattack. Their social life is often impaired due to problems derived from entitlement, the need for admiration, and the relative disregard for the sensitivities of others. Though their excessive ambition and confidence may lead to high achievement; performance may be disrupted due to intolerance of criticism or defeat. Sometimes vocational functioning can be very low, reflecting an unwillingness to take a risk in competitive or other situations in which defeat is possible. Individuals with this disorder have special difficulties adjusting to growing old and losing their former ?superiority?.

The prevalence of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is less than 1% of the general population. It is seen in 2% to 16% of psychiatric outpatients. This disorder is more frequent in males (50% to 75%) than females.

Narcissistic traits are very common in adolescents, but most adolescents grow out of this behavior. Unfortunately, for some, this narcissistic behavior persists and intensifies into adulthood; thus they become diagnosed with this disorder.

I hope my information has brought you some adequate insight into your friends behavior, which is not an easy one to cope with, let me assure you !

I sure wish you all the BEST for the future ! Greetings from Germany with all my love & care...your friend...Annette****

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Paranoia may destroy him. He needs to talk to his medical doctor first and get referral to a counselor or shrink. Definately self centered who thinks the world revolves around him. He needs to get out, get some exercise, eat right, enjoy music, get out in the country and enjoy some nature. Be himself without worrying about everybody else. Now if he is showing signs of mental illness, he needs meds. Be supportive but talk logically to him about talking to somebody. Your getting pissed off on Yahoo won't do him no good. Rephrase your question to make it more interesting so people will give it a good answer. The power of language. Good luck dude.

he's narcissistic..everything he thinks about has to do only with him, and he thinks that that is how everyone else thinks too.