Why do some women care and some not about thier husband / boyfriend seeing other women's boobs?

Nascar races can be interesting...especially if you're camping for the weekend to attend all the races and pre-race stuff. I understand this because I was introduced to what really goes on there a few summers ago at my first Cup race. all i can say is W-O-W. lol Maybe my husband has done a good enough job making sure that I'm ok with a situation before we enter it. As in, If we knew that by giving out beads, women would be flashing us, there would have to be a level of comfort and security I would have to have BEFORE we did it. While I've never actually done THIS at a race .... I will say that I would actually probably be ok with it. and in fact, may or may not even comment on which "racks" might be better than others. Boobs are boobs, and really, I secretly know he'd rather be seeing mine anyways, even if they aren't the best ones there.

I don't care about my husband seeing another woman's boobs, so I can only answer from that aspect.

It doesn't bother me because I know that my husband loves me. I don't need him to never look at another women, to know that. We've gone to nude beaches quite a few times. I've never felt insecure- and I have a nice body but I've seen much better. It just doesn't bother me that he's seeing other women's naked bodies. I'm not sure why but I do know that I've never been jealous and insecure throughout our relationship. In fact, the last time I can honestly say that I got jealous over something any guy did while being with me, I was about 15 or 16. I just don't trip over stuff like that.

I can't imagine going around with my wife and offering women beads to see their boobs...pretty classless in my book. Now if you are walking around and some girl flashes randomly, not much you can do and you can't blame him for looking. I don't get the beads thing in the first place...why in the world do women care about beads? For guys, I get it...you can spot the easy drunk ones from a distance then but what is the motivation for the women!?!?!

Jealousy! women folk believe that if yet another woman is dressed skimpy or skimpy that she is doing so with the purpose of attracting A mans interest. There for she is the difficulty, no longer their guy. yet bear in concepts that girls folk do the comparable component, even nonetheless they're greater perfect at disguising the attention look at yet another guy, they're in basic terms human and actual allure would not advise that they are going to drop you on the sight and take off with the different man or woman. As men all of us comprehend this, yet women folk believe is is their seems that allure to the guy so it extremely is the seems of yet another female which will take him away.

You don't have to get over your insecurity. If it bothers you, that's just who you are. That doesn't make you a party pooper. Personally, I wouldn't care about my husband looking at other women's boobs but he's not a boob man. He's a butt man.

Realize that your hubby is just a little boy at heart, still fascinated with boobs. Some men never grow out of it. If he doesn't act like a pig - and doesn't do it when he knows he annoys you, then don't worry. If he does it even though he knows it bothers you - then it might be "cast iron skillet to the back of the head time". Sorry, no violence.

But if he does it anyway, he's being a jerk and there needs to be some consequences. You could get a couple of 'men's fitness magazines' and ogle the guys in it and point out everything that you find attractive. He'll either get the message and realize he needs to spend more time making you happy - or he'll get silly and jealous. Either way - you'll find out where he's coming from.

I don't know why I don't care, 9 out of 10 women have bigger/better boobs than mine (I'm a 34A even after nursing babies). I guess at some point early on in my life I decided that boobs were a non issue for me and my self worth wasn't defined by the size of my boobs. Let him look, I look at guys with nice, muscular legs and buns, my husband's has chicken-picking legs, and I love him anyway and it doesn't mean I want to have sex with every guy I see with a nice body. Be a good sport, he loves you and is married to you.

One problem is that it's not equal - where's your eye candy?

And I dont want my man lusting over other girls... I would see that as threatening... him giving sexual attention to other women is not ok.

I live in new orleans, there is NO WAY that my guy would even dream of doting attention on girls who lift their shirt - mind you we go through all of mardi gras without seeing those morons, cause they are just tourists on bourbon and are easy to avoid.

But, I think that what happened is not acceptable fun for a married man.

Women who put up with it are of the same breed as women who say that men cheat, it's just something you have to accept... and then they try to compete with the shirt-lifters... rather than taking them off the table of acceptable stuff in the first place.

Personally, I believe it doesn't have anything to do with "insecurity" but more to do with personal beliefs, morals and feelings. I wouldn't be supportive of my husband wanting to look at another woman's boobs and if I knew that was an issue for him I would suggest that we split. He would need to either be single or find someone who it didn't bother..had the same "beliefs" as him. I wouldn't want to feel like I would have to change that part of myself for him or that he had to change that part of himself for me.... Everyone is different. If it bothers you....why do you feel you should change it? Because our stupid a**ed society says if you don't accept it something is wrong with you? Society is a bunch of people who believe they have the right to say what is "cool" what is not "cool", what is "normal" or not "normal", what is "wrong" or not "wrong"...what having a "low self esteem" is and what having a "high self esteem" is. I go with my gut and could care less about what others think I should feel. You can't go wrong that way.

Have you ever though about the fact that your husband just likes to look at sexy women, yet he devotes all his sexual interest in you? Also, did you happen to notice that other men may of been checking you out, like he was doing to other women? You look pretty good in your avatar pix.