i started dating this guy we both are married and now he started feeling bad about messing around on his wife?

Deep gut feelings? I think you are experiencing irritable bowel. Try some pepto, and stop sleeping around.

If you knew from the start that it was wrong, why did you do it? I would say the feelings you are having are guilt. How in the hell do u look ur husband in the eyes and lay down with him at night? I will never understand people. If you are not happy in ur marriage then get a divorce before you start seeing someone else. Why ruin ur husbands life because you can't stay out of someone Else's bed? And the wife of the guy you are cheating with, why would you or him do that to her. People in this world need to grow up and take the vows of marriage seriously. How would u feel if the shoe were on the other foot? I am married, and if I thought for one second of cheating I would know something was wrong in the marriage. I would talk to my partner and see if I could work things out before I just hoped into someone Else's bed. Think about what you are doing to him. I really hope there aren't kids involved in all of this.

You need to find a good counselor and get yourself together in order to really start finding the right person, If your marriage was okay, you would not have started the affair to begin with so start there and once you have that figured out, either work harder to save the marriage or divorce. Next, do things to build up your self esteem since I suspect that he is doing or saying things that make you feel good about yourself and that really keeps you from finding that self esteem on your own. You are stuck in a rut and the view is much better once you get out of it and start in a new direction in life.

Come on now.. dont know know that there are only 2 types of married men you should sleep with? the ones that will leave the wife for you or the ones that wont feel guilty about having you around...

hahaha oh oh oh just let it go and get a divorce already

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You are both doing nothing but hurting each other and your spouses even if they don't know. When they find out (and they always do) they will be even more upset. He should feel bad and so should you. If you are not happy in your relationship with your husband or maybe he won't do the same things this other man does you need to express that to your husband or leave him.

I won't judge you because love and lust can make people do things without thinking what's best for everyone involved but the fact is that you don't have a future with him, him feeling guilty toward his wife is a good indication that you will not be a part of his future plan. Do what's right for you, cease any contacts with him.

What goes around comes around hon. I pray that you will come to your senses and just leave it alone and try to rebuild your marriage before it gets ugly hon. If you are that unhappy its better to be honest and just end your marriage also. How would you feel if your husband was doing this behind your back...I have been in this situation at one time and let me just say cheating never helps it only makes things worse in a bad marriage.

Something is lacking from your marriage and the other guy fills the void. It's not a good situation to be in nobody wins and someone will end up getting hurt. We always want the things we can't have.

The deep gut feeling you are experiencing is called guilt. If you do not have love in your marriage, don't go around stealing someone else's. It will come back and bite you big time.