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Virginity questions!?

When i was 15, i got very drunk (1/2 litre of vodka) and got taken advantage of, this was my first time, and have been wiht one other guy since then. it wasnt as special as i wanted it to be considering it was my first time in love. i have decided i want my virginity to grow back and have heard it takes 5 years, but i have found this guy i am begining to fall for, is it worth blowing my 2 years hard work, for this guy, or has my virginity already grown back. what i really wnt to know, is how long does it take to grow back or will it not at all and its just a myth?

Update:

im being treated like sum kind of a retard lol, im intelligent and felt safe wiht the people i was with, and the first time, he went in and came out coz my friends started being horrible to him, but it was still enough to 'burst me bubble', and i just wanted to loose it with someone i wanted to, and i dont know if its lvoe or nefing with this new guy, but seems to be getting more and mroe each time i see him, and i didnt want to push him away and ruin two years of hard work for nothing, but if i know then theres no point waiting and im not an idiot i wnt do nefing i dont want to, and he knows exactly my plans, on wanting to grow it back etc. and he respects that.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Grow back?

    This is a first I've ever heard of such a thing happening. And I'm willing to bet it's a myth.

    What I do know to be true is if a woman goes a long time without having sex she may tighten up again.

    In fact, she can get to be so tight that when she does decide to have sex, it may feel like her first time all over again.

    Difficult for her and even more so for the guy trying to penetrate her.

    However this doesn't mean that every female is like that. But it makes more sense than the whole ""hymen growing back myth""

  • 1 decade ago

    Its interesting you should say this as my marriage broke down and I divorced him, I never had sex for the last two years I was with him and there has been 5 years since the divorce, I met my now fiance 2 and half years ago and never tried to have sex straight away since we wanted to get to know each other after both having come from a bad marriage.

    When we did try to have sex it hurt like hell, I have had two kids and it still hurt me so much we had to stop, it almost felt like I was a virgin again. We had another attempt and had to stop then also, it was only after that time that we then managed it, and its got better and better since then.

    I dont know about your hymen growing back but if you dont have sex for this length of time things can get a little tight to say the least. We always say I was a born again virgin lol, its true that it cant grow back but if you dont have sex for a long time then it does hurt.

    Maybe the old saying "use it or lose it" is right, it was in my case anyway, good luck and dont be persuaded to have sex just because you lost your virginity already. You may not be a virgin in body anymore but you are certainly a virgin in your mind, so you do what you believe to be right and make certain the next person you sleep with is the special one for you.

  • 1 decade ago

    what is the point of "trying to become a virgin again?" The point of virginity and trying to keep it sacred until your first time is so that you can share something special with that one person. I am not saying that just because you already had sex once you should be running to every guy and doing it, just be careful on who you do it with if it feels right then go for it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Once it is 'gone, it is gone'.

    I've not heard about this myth, of ''it growing back'' ...and so, sorry, but it is a myth and or someones idea of humour.

    You 'got drunk on a 1/2 bottle of Vodka', and you got 'taken advantage of'..........

    So, why did you PUT YOURSELF in a position where you could be taken advantage of?

    Why do I read you and feel so bloody sad ?

    Good luck.

    Sash.

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  • 1 decade ago

    your virginity can never grow back. Sorry but once it is gone it is gone forever. But if you are religious you can become a "reborn virgin" in the eyes of the lord. The myth was born because after sex the vaginal walls tighten up if they are not stretched regularly. If you really love him you will explain to him that you are not a virgin and consider how he feels about it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm not judging, because i don't know you. But it seems as if you entitle yourself to be taken advantage of. You try, but once a nice actor comes along, aka. player, you let them step in and grab your virginity in a second..?

    I'd wait till you find someone you truly love, and have been with for a few months, then take it to the next step.

  • Nadia
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You are mistaking Sex with the hymen. The hymen is the skin which covers the entrance of the vagina.

    Once this is broken one will say thet the virginity is lost. However, this may grow back intime - very very rarely.

    As for your virginity it is lost forever losing virginity one could say is like burning a piece of paper to nothing - once its burned you cant get it back, its gone for good.

    Source(s): Lifes experiences.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sorry to tell you this but once you lose your virginity there is no wa of getting it back. If you truly love this guy you will waite and see how far it goes with you guys first of all and then see about making love

  • Kitty
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    O.o, what are you talking about? Virginity isn't a physical trait. Once you've had sex, you're no longer a virgin. It's done, gone, out of the question and there's nothing you can do to get it back.

  • 1 decade ago

    honey it is not going to grow back i am sorry to tell you that but you should wait for the right one if you are going to give yourself to him. make Shure he is the one and it is what you want not what he wants because he is a guy they will come and go in your life. don't let him push you into doing it.

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