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Does anyone know any health products that my fiance can take, he has type 2 diabetes and is on metformin.

Just wondered if any vitamins or other herbal products would help, thank you.

My fiance cheated on his ex wife during their marriage and the affair lasted with one woman for about 8 months but he said it was maybe once a month just for sex, and he also had a one night stand with a woman as well. He had some personal problems as he was overweight and when he started losing weight his confidence grew (I think) and he cheated in this way. He explained it to me in all honestly and said he never trusted his wife, she was out 4/5 nights a week and he babysat, and he suspected her of cheating when she went out he told me he found evidence on more than one occasion.

I am engaged to him and we are getting married next summer, my problem is I had violent marriage which left me with low self esteem and self worth problems. He swears to me he loves me and is in love for the first time, he calls me his soul mate and I feel the same although it took me a long, long time to get comfortable with my feelings toward him as I had been so badly hurt before. I had bad issues with his cheating in his past and took a lot to put it away in my head and understand it. Everything was cool until I met his wife, not socially but just to say hello and she was lovely, she was very "mumsy" and family orientated so I cant believe all he said about her to me for the reason he cheated I am convincing myself he cheated because he wanted more sex and because he looked slimmer and its hard for me to equate her with the woman he said she was.

How can I put this away in my head now as I dont see a reason about her for him to cheat and I feel in time he will do this to me.

I cant move forward and although we are planning our wedding and putting deposits down on things I want to put a hold on things until I sort out my head.

Is this being fair on him as its not the first time I have had "time away to sort my head" should I just believe in my own confidence and the words he says to me and move forward or shall I stay cautious and not marry him ? I want him in my life but its the commitment I worry about as I dont think I could handle another failure. Thanks for your help.

We are getting married June 09 and its the second time for both of us, we have house and everything in it so would really prefer a gift of money from our guests instead of another saucepan set or whatever.

Has anyone an idea how to word this on the invitation so that it doesn't sound rude or presumptious ?

Thanks in advance.

Would you consider a facelift and at what age ?

I love opera and wondered what people would think if we chose an aria for our wedding song ?

My son has a first class honors degree in computing science and multi media technology.

He started work at a supermarket when he was 18 to fund his college course, now ten years later he is manager of a department there.

He hates every day and is stressed out totally with the job, 13 hour day and no regular breaks.

He has tried everything he can to get a job in his chosen field but has almost resigned himself to the fact that he cant get in.

Some say he is over qualified, some say he has not enough experience.

Where can he go from here ?

He obviously has his CV plastered all over the net and there is nothing that can escape him from there so he has every avenue covered as far as that is concerned.

I feel his degree is wasted and so does he but what can he do ?

He is on terrific money but is willing to take a small drop in salary to work in computing.

Any ideas anyone ?

Thank so much.

What is your favourite song from the 60's ?

I know that my ex husband is still in love with me even though we are divorced and he is living with his girlfriend.

I am to be married in June next year and my daughter will be bridesmaid, she is so excited and wants her dad to come and watch.

I dont have a problem with this as we are still friends and neither does my fiance (although i think he would prefer him not to be there for obvious reasons).

Do you think it would be appropriate for my ex and his girlfriend to be there for my daughters sake ? It would make things easier for us as we are spending the weekend at the hotel where the reception will be held before going on honeymoon. My daughter will be staying with her dad whilst we are away.

He wont come because he is jealous, but my daughter is stressing out about this.

What would you do ?

Dont know what others think of this but it is now making me really uncomfortable. I am engaged to an Italian man living at home with his mamma, he has been married before but after the divorce went back to his mum as it was cheaper and convenient for him. We have known each other 18 months and got engaged a month ago. He has not told his mum that he is engaged or that we have set the wedding date for next year yet, he keeps telling me he needs to find the right time

everyone I know knows about my engagement and they are all happy for me, I have not even met his mother and she knows nothing about me or at least bits and pieces as he chooses to tell her. I dont think I am getting the full story back from him though as she is very demanding and controlling in other ways yet he says she says nothing about me or is not curious in anyway.

I am getting cold feet.