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My shy crush is weird....Help me please?

Well i have a crush on a shy and quiet boy, he knew that i like him becuz my friend told him when he didnt even know who i am

Now he has known me for 1.5 months, but we are too shy, so we havent talked in person yet

Recently he has told my friend that maybe we have a chance, but we havent talked in person so he's not sure

As i said he's a really really shy, and rarely talks to girls, he never initiates the convo, it was always me. Recently he keeps staring and looking at me, smiles at me 2, but never says hi to me first. He's fraid of my friends knowing that he has some feeling too, he showed it a bit obvious, but still doesnt speak a word to me!He told my friend that he would try to talk to me and get 2 know be better but he still didnt.

Then i tried to talk to him, he seemed happy and interested, he blushed, smiled( he bit his lips like he didnt wanna show me that he was smiling), but he didnt look at me all the time when we talked, he tried to avoid eyes contact, he just looked at me sometimes, and then his feet and somewhere all the time.

Is that normal for a shy guy? Is he interested? What should i do next? I did it once and now i dunno wat 2 do

Is it just come up to him and talk again? Well i hv no confidence

He's 16 and I am 15, comes from different countries, he'sjapanese and I'm vietnamese( if it helps)

Please help, thanks a lot guys^^

Update:

I mean he's not afraid of showing he's looking at me, but still doesnt talk 2 me first

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    It sounds like he likes you (: Guys are annoying creatures when it comes to initiating relationships, actually (especially if they're shy). And they're stubborn.

    Avoiding eye contact is quite common, really, so you shouldn't be worried. Just keep talking to him, and build up your relationship. Once both of you are comfortable with each other it'll develop on its own. You wouldn't want to go on a date NOW, because it'd be super awkward. Become friends before you start your relationship, and it'll last much much much longer :D

    And I'd suggest, for when you guys are really friends and you want to tell him outright you like him, to write a letter if you're not comfortable saying it out loud. Letters can be written beforehand, so you won't get tonguetied, and something handwritten is always heartwarming (:

    Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He's trying to get the nerve. If it's his first time. Guys can easily talk to girls that he has no intention of seeing that as a possible girl friend. But when it come to seeing one as a possible girl friend.

    Shy comes in out of the fear of rejection and the fact he is afraid of looking stupid in front of a girl he likes and would be trying to impress.

    You start the conversation it will make it easier for him to open up.

    Good luck.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

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