Why is it???????????

It sounds like you just value your virginity a lot, which is a good thing.

If you always say no and you don't know why, then it means your just not ready. If you were you would.

Plain and simple.

I think you should be asking yourself this.

I think it might be a fear of losing something--your virginity. I lost mine to an ex. I'm a guy so I'm sure it's slightly different still but while I had many chances before her, I'm glad it was with her. She ended up being a ***** years after that after which we broke up but hey, at the time, we both were totally in love with eachother.

I can also say that it's not that big of a deal. However I personally have better sex with someone I love than some floozy. Maybe I'm just some emo ***** though. Actually, no.

Maybe your just not ready yet. Don't force yourself to have sex because you think your ready, if you truly where then you wouldn't be saying no. Deep inside you most likely feel it's not the right time, not that your going to get pregnant, but that for some reason your sub-conscience is telling you your not ready. Ask him to respect it and you'll know when the time is right. After all if he really loves you then he can wait a few more weeks or months, right?

i totally understand you the first time i lost my virginity i was with him for a year and still no sex even though i was curious because i loved him and it was what i really wanted to do , but i set my mind to it being beyond sexual intercourses . wait for when your fianally ready to let go then go ahead and give it up . make sure its what you really want to do now a days people dont value there purity . sad to see someone with regrets .

you are scared and yes you may kick yourself but you want it to be just right and romantic right otherwise you will remember it without it being romantic. ask him to be patient you know you want to do it but you are scared. he will understand. but you must be absolutely relaxed to do it within yourself. just speak to him face to face so that there are no miscommunications between you both as he is your bf and he will get frustrated as having a h... on well guys can get rid of it themselves but they dont want to so they get cranky . just tell him its not the right time. you will know when you are ready as your body will be alltingly and you will do it , oh maybe drink wine before hand as you are 18 and get a little drunk that will work.take care

You're just not comfortable yet, and there's nothing wrong with that. If you're scared of getting pregnant, then don't have sex until you're pretty confident that you won't get pregnant. ...Or perhaps you don't trust him enough to get that close to you.

Maybe your scared subconsciously that its gonna hurt? just make sure when you do decide to have it have a lot of lube that way u mightnt be as scared of it hurting? im juz guessing :P.. good luck hun =] Xx

i think u need to wait until the right time and if he is a true man ., he should understand and respect that.....what if u are not together anymore and u lost ur big V

i think u should wait till ur mood changes towards a gud man.when u r suitable 4 sex then u automatically turn towards this...

wait....

Moral qualms?