How do I let him know that its just toooo much?

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Ok let me start out with I dont like to hurt anyone...ever.I started talkin to this guy and he just dont let up.I told him from the start that I didnt wanna be in a relationship and that we could friends but he just pushes and pushes.He does thinks like mows my yard and sends me flowers and asks me 8000 questions like hey will you go meet my mom or hey can I bring my kids over to meet you and okay you're thinkin wow why are you fussin right?Well because I dont use people and Ive tried tellin him hey this is just a friendship but then he acts like I just shot his puppy in front of him.I dont wanna hurt him but he texts and calls alllll day and then he wants to stop by everyday and if I was in a place to have a relationship this would be great but I just got out of a 4 year (not so good one) and I need to get me better first.I just feel like I cant breathe without him or Im gonna hurt his feelings.HELP!He says he's not pushing but I feel like thats all he does and it bothers me.

Update:

Thank you for your answer and just to be clear I have been very honest.VERY HONEST! and he says okay I just want to be a part of your life but he still pushes and pushes.I dont want to be mean but he just dont get it.

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You won't like what i'm about to say but i think you need to put your foot down and just tell him that you feel he is being too forward.Explain to him about how you feel about your recent break-up from your relationship and say that you need sometime to get over that. Tell him you'd love to keep him as a friend but that's it. And if he does the 'shot-his-puppy' thing, be strong. Hopefully he'll respect your decision and back off a little.

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