question for guys over 18 please?

Well if she asks me that's a pretty good one.

Might say no if you have a some sort of sensitive relationship with me. Friend, friend of a friend, work, etc. Personally I'm more of a strings attached kind of guy and if we don't have a spark then it's not worth it.

I only was offered it once, and I had to turn it down because I just wasn't interested, most guys may disagree but I was dating my gf for just her, not for what was down her waist. My ex broke up with me for it, which I understand, but fortunately, I found a girl who agrees with me, my fiance of 4 years.

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Funny how the rest of the guys think the only people who would turn it down are gay. So I guess I'm gay even though I dated my girlfriend for 4 years?

Not all guys have the feeling to shove an appendage into a girl, sure everyone has the urge to, but I just love the relationship the way it is and I don't need it to change or improve it, call us old-fashioned, we just don't want to change anything that isn't broken.

I will not have sex with a girl until I've been going out with her for a good while. Some guys will turn down sex on religious\moral grounds. Others will turn down sex from girls they think are sluts. As far as clear signals, Im clueless at reading them.

Personally, if I percieve the girl as a slut or full of herself. I don't think I am typical though. I like to think the girl is relatively intelligent and interesting. I don't think most guys would turn down sex ever though.

Clear signals are contact, like hand on leg, head on shoulder, stuff like that. Also being really flirty.

What could make a guy turn down sex?

-Virgin and scared (yes even over 18)

-Scared of personal performance

-Fear of STD

The vast majority wouldn't turn down sex. Just kiss him and rub his dong on the outside of his pants and he should get a clue. If not, dump the zero and get with a hero.

i would never turn down an offer for sex from a girl who i thought was decently cool, sane, and std free

never

Turn down sex from a good looking girl...unheard of unless he's...

turned down sex from a good looking girl. who would do such a thing.

Grab him by the dick, and well if he says no whats the worst that could possibly happen.