What to do when you are getting bored with your sex life?

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I was out with the girls and my best friend is bored with her partner. She doesn't want to cheat, has plenty of porn and sex toys; what the hell more can there be left to suggest?

Oh, I know, maybe role playing.  I did that once and it's so much fun.  My partner and I dressed to kill.  We went out in separate cars to meet at the same place.  I arrived first and sat at the bar.  While enjoying my apple martini,  he arrived and sat at the far end from me.  We acted like total strangers.  Approximately 30 min later he sent me a drink with the bartender and a message asking if he could sit next to me to talk. This was exactly when I had been approach by some guy that was giving me small talk.  Finally he makes his move...it goes on and gets interesting but I will make it short cause this time is not about me, I want to focus on my best friend.  At the end we made out at the bar and left short after leaving everyone thinking he had picked me up and was going to get lucky.......the rest is even better ; )

Anyhow, I'll suggest this to my friend.  Any other suggestions for her?

JeNnn · Accepted Answer

This is totally not what you wanted to hear but my OB told me once that the greatest cure for a low sex drive is to "find a new partner" even though a woman doesn't realize it she does get bored with the same old routine, and its a proven fact (studies showed) that with a new partner their sex drive increased majorly!                                                     But since this is your BFF I will give some other asvice, Even if she doesn't role play any kind of "dressing up" or spontaneous stuff will excite them, and also strange places work well too

Anonymous · Answer

1. Use sex toys: Although intimidating for some, sex toys can make sex more interesting and enticing.

2.    Watch porn: It does not work for everyone, but porn can help get you in the mood, or help you discover new things.

3.    Be more adventurous: Keep the interest alive by being willing to try new things.

4.    Get out of the bedroom: Explore new places to have sex, like the kitchen or your neighborhood park to spice things up.

5.    Talk dirty: Whether you're in the bedroom or out on a date, don't be shy about talking dirty.

6.    Fight boredom: If you're bored with sex, think of new ways you and your partner can connect.

7.    Leave the lights on: Toss out feelings of shame and embarrassment, and have more exciting sex with the lights on.

8.    Explore by touching new regions: Get away from traditional erogenous zones, and touch your partner some place new.

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What to do when you are getting bored with your sex life?
I was out with the girls and my best friend is bored with her partner. She doesn&#39;t want to cheat, has plenty of porn and sex toys; what the hell more can there be left to suggest?

Oh, I know, maybe role playing.  I did that once and it&#39;s so much fun.  My partner and I dressed to kill. ...

Diena · Answer

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? · Answer

Rekindle the relationship. It is not simply about fun/games and role play. Intimacy is a very important aspect to any relationship which begins well before the bedroom or any sexual activity. Suggest that she and  her husband "date" share intimate moments together.

shirish agrawal · Answer

suggest a secret visit to any good destination for a weekend along with a good hunk,enjoy life fully ,make several trips ,also suggest that she may also get divorced if her partner gets to hear about it

Anonymous · Answer

where is dr.ruth or ron jeremy,chapter 5 pg 69...

Julie B · Answer

if you have a very Special  friend who doesn't mind you watching while they have sex,that will unbore you!

Anonymous · Answer

well if she has lost interset for sex they need to stop watching it

Anonymous · Answer

Gay sex with you should cheer her up!

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