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Should I be worried? All I ever think about is sex!!?
All I ever think about is having sex. I figured it was normal for a while when I was a teen, but I seem to think about sex more now than I ever have before. It's getting to a point where I'm having trouble concentrating on things that require my attention. I'm physically attracted to almost every woman I see, and no I'm not a virgin, and yes I get a regular amount of sex. Even with the regular amount, I still want more! I don't mean to offend anybody, women are just so damn fine! :D
Anyway, how can I control this?
Any help would be appreciated!
Ok ok, after reading the first response i feel that i better clarify some things.
First, i have a ton of respect for women. I would never do anything against a woman's will, especially rape!!!!!!!
Second, when i'm thinking about it, it's not deviant or violent, or anything painful or any of that ****.
And i just want to add, i only ever enjoy sex, when she's enjoying it too, to me there is no bigger turn off than your partner not wanting you.
The point is, I might have an issue, but i'll never go rape anyone or do anything even close to that EVER! I love women, even more when they love me back, i don't ever plan on hurting anyone!
I also wanted to add, even though it's been harder to concentrate, it's not affecting my life to the point that i'm not fufilling my responsibilities, bills, work, etc etc. I have several hobbies, and they do help. I work out daily and that helps as well. The biggest inconvenience is losing sleep!
27 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
This feeling is so normal. You can fantasize your feeling when you see any woman. Well if you are not able to concentrate on your work then it is a problem. You should see a psychiatrist. If you are not interested in that you can do with some meditation and body workout, this will surely keep you away from such thoughts for a while.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Dude I just asked a question pretty similar a few minutes ago.
But seriously I have the same exact problem and I have a gf of 4 years and we have sex on the regular.
I wish I knew what it is, it might be an overactive sex drive. All I can say is keep trying to focus on other things like work or hobbies. It's hard I know because I can't stop thinking about sex it's like a driving force in almost every interaction I have especially with attractive women.
But hey if you have some tips answer mine too.
- 1 decade ago
You maybe a sex-aholic. And most people would think that is a problem, but it only becomes a problem when it starts to effect your regular lifestyle (Which for you it obviously has.) So maybe you should seek counseling. I mean im a female and i think about sex almost all the time, but everyone does whether they want to admit it or not, but most people have control over their thoughts and don't let it interrupt their life. So it might be a problem or it might not. (Only you can walk in your shoes.
- 1 decade ago
well, go to a counselor or something cuz u really need some help! but, i think its normal for a guy to think about sex a lot, and its normal to see women and think they're hot. i do the same thing with guys. any guy i see that is hot i go DAMN HE'S FINE! i do it to guys i don't even know. but just cuz u think about sex all the time doesn't mean u have a problem, well maybe but just really concentrate on the things u have to work on and you'll be fine. if that doesn't work go see a counselor or a shrink cuz then u have a problem.
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- 1 decade ago
I think that in a way it's normal (especially for guys). I wouldn't worry about it too much unless you start developing unhealthy habits like:
Paying for prostitutes or going to a strip club so much where it begins to hurt you financially.
Watching excessive porno. By excessive I mean either watching it in inappropriate places (like work, school, etc) or to the point where it starts hurting you financially (ordering too much off the internet or TV).
Having multiple sex partners - like hooking up with someone every night or even multiple times a week/month.
In the meantime, masturbate!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Us humans love sex. I mean, how can we not, right? However, if your need for sex begins to affect how you live your daily life, then you should seek help. My best friend actually had this issue and now goes to a therapist because she was literally addicted to sex. It's not funny though- it almost ruined her life. It is a REAL ISSUE.
So, if you feel like its taking over your life, talk to someone.
- 1 decade ago
look u r a male and i would say its normal for u 2 b that way. think about if there would not be any guys with that desire than what?
i would recommend u to look for some professional help to help u control those desires.
true if u don't control that u could turn into a rapist and no one wants that at all
;) think on it
- 1 decade ago
Go to a cute girl and say "Hey," be nice, make a conversation and then start a relationship after 2 weeks and then get serious and take her to a river. After sex, you will probably want more but don't worry you will grow sick out of it.
- bearsbullsfanLv 41 decade ago
you can't control it! didn't you know? you've been infected by the sexoralphalitis virus, and there is no cure. it's like trying to stop lebron james, not gonna happen. seriously, you need to find a hobby, hopefully one that doesn't involve women (good luck with that). just stay busy, you should be fine.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
have sex more often. Try every morning afternoon quicky and night time sex and even early morning sex that helped me but i had to sneak the boys in. Good luck
Source(s): !3 female