Married with Different work schedules?

Her schedule is more important then you.

What does that tell you?

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\So you want her to change her schedule forever and yet you are leaving completely in 4 months "for a long time"? I think you are the selfish one here...after you leave, she'd still be stuck with the other shift! If you "want to spend as much time with her as possible" then maybe you should find work that doesn't have you leaving for a long time. You want it all your way though, huh?

Wow. How inconsiderate. Well, since you have already TOLD her how you feel and what can be done to change that, it would appear she does not care. In that case, this would be the best way to get used to not seeing her or being with her once you do leave. My next step would be asking her for a divorce. If she does not want that, then ask her what she DOES want, because this will not work for you.

I would simply say this to your wife:

"Isnt dealing with a few customers worth the extra time you'll get to spend in my arms?"

If that doesn't have any effect, maybe there is more going on.

She should want to be with you.

Good luck.

She probably does want to be with you, It's her job. Maybe she's just scared to ask for a different schedule.

If you are "leaving for a long time" anyway, what difference does it make? This way the "breakup" will be easier on her.

Give her an ultimatum, if she still refuses maybe it's just best to part ways.