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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

If they re saying the word "f***k in bed?

I just want to get some opinons. My bf and I share a great relationship and we care about each other. But one thing that bothered me a bit was one day in bed, he said "while we were f***k**g" .

I didnt like this,and said id rather he said while we were having sex or making love.

It bothers me a bit, is this ok for guys to use this term sometimes even when they truly care about their gfs

btw...Im more of a "good" girl

Update:

thanks a lot all. I do understand now that it doesnt mean so much. i guess we re just different in terms of slangs we use in bed.

as for the guy who said i shouldn't be having sex cause Im a good girl. Jeez, I'm 25, how good can a girl get? lol

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    In my opinion , yes it is OK for a guy to use the word F U C K or with ING on the end . Many girls talk about F-ing blokes today . It is an Onomatopoeia , descriptive of the sound of love making . It expresses physical zest , rather than being a vulgar swear word .

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    friend.. guys use a little slang when they grow up with friends. . Once they are matured and live with kids, they will cut down slang words from use. Nothing to worry.. Even if you are good, a bit naughty is okay. Try to think that it is not an offense.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hello good girl. Men are from mars and women from venus. l.o.l. do not get upset about this, it is a man thing. I have been married for 15 years and with my husband 17. They do not think about things the way we do. to us that statement belittles what we do to something akin to what animals do, to them it is just a term for an act. In the long run what should concern you is that you are happy with the act itself.

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  • 1 decade ago

    There is no reason to be offended. I know I love my bf very much, and hell I tell him to f**k me too. To some people it's a pretty hot word. Lol, i highly doubt it means he looks down on you or anything.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's usually used in a slight pejorative sense, but not always.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you're more of a "good girl", you wouldn't be having sex.

  • 1 decade ago

    yes, guys tend to brag about their sexual prowess . it's kinda macho in guys parlance....so, don't worry about it....

  • 1 decade ago

    i like good girls.

    i wanna f*ck you

    anything other than that is too mild

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    jeez, get unwound... it's no biggie... except to you...

    if you don't like the terms he uses, leave him...

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