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Girl likes me...but I'm sure I like her?

SO this 8th grade girl (i'm in 10th grade) likes me and this week I have been hanging out a lot with her friends and her. So now the like turns into a crush. She told her friends and told them to keep it a secret, cuz she wants to tell me herself (i found out through her friends, i'm rly persuasive. and also her friend is always asking me "why won't you go out with her?"). So the problem is I don't like her (like her as a good friend, which we are right now...at least to me), but I don't wanna hurt her feelings or "break her heart". Any advice??

Update:

thanx y'all!

BTW the questions is suppose to be "...but I'm NOt sure I like her?"

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If your heart tells you to try, then you should. Just be friends with her, and try to hint out that you don't like her. (Maybe you can talk to her about you having a crush on some girl, and your crush does not look like her at all.)

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  • 1 decade ago

    If you really really dont want to go out with her than just be honest with her, dont string her along thinking that maybe there's a chance you guys could be together. Or if you are just a little unsure about her, then maybe give her a chance and go out with her, you might end up really liking her, or if it doesnt end up working out then just break up with her. Take a chance you might find the girl of your dreams but you just didnt know it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Being honest to the girl would be less hurting than pretending that you love her but never mean it. You should tell her the truth when the time comes that she's telling her feelings for you so that she wouldn't expects something from you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Nobody likes to hurt a girl's feelings but honestly if you feel as if you just want to stay as good friends then confront her on her own. I know you don't wan to hurt her feelings and you don't have to. Just break it down lightly and tell her you just want to stay as good friends.

    She should understand if not then give her some reasons why you want to stay good friends. You can't love someone who you don't really love. Also on another point she can have any guy she wants, she is bound to fall for her prince charming one day who will like her back.

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  • Iris
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    just tell her exactly what you said here. you like her as a friend and nothing more and want to keep your friendship and not ruin it

  • uhhuh
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Take what you can get, bro...

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