This girl confuses me, I really like her, but she might be going with someone else?!?

Maybe she thinks you still have feelings for Dakotah therefore she is keeping her guard up. Talk to her and let her know how you feel. Also you guys seem to be really good friends and she probably doesn't want to ruin the friendship you guys have by dating you which is why she tell you she loves you like a brother. Like I said before talk to her and let her know exactly how you feel about her and give her a few weeks. [= Good luck.

She sounds sorta like me lolz. She even has my name in a different spelling haha

Anyways, what she's doing is testing you. (Trust me, this I know because I have done this, too.) It's a test to see What you say and How you act. She likes you, but she doesn't know exactly how much she likes you. She considers you her best friend but sometimes thinks you can be So much more but is afraid to even give you that chance to be more because, well, if things don't work out then you and her might not be freinds anymore, which is something that really really scares her.

What you have to do is tell her everything straight out. Be sincere. Don't say anything about Dakotah because that will seriously **** her off and not want to hear the rest of what you were about to say. Also, don't be hesitant when saying that you like her because that, to her, is like saying that you're not sure. Just be straight out. Don't say "Don't go out with Lee, please!" because she will probably not like that begging factor. Give her options. Basically, tell her how you feel and let her be able to decide what she wants to do. "You can go out with Lee if you want, but I just really, really like you, Nicki" Ya know, something like that that gives her options and the truth at the same time.

Hope I helped and good luck, dude! If she's anything like me then this stuff should work pretty well, but also, don't expect a quick response. Expect her to wanna think about it overnight. Byee!!

right first of all keep calm! lol umm by the sounds of it this girl is all over the pkace with what she wants at the mo, so she needs to sort out her own mental isues first. and the reason u dnt talk inschool is because you have to put on a different face in school to be able to (survive) so u cant b yourself much, but when your textin each other your yourself and you can say what u like and she will say what she is actually thinking too! sheprobs likes u but if shes to ignorant to see that her messing you about is confusing u then move on, she doesnt sound worth all the hassle to. If shes not prepared to be herself in school and not b care what poeple think then she have gone for u already and u wudnt b having this dilemma x so i think unless she backs her ideas up and just lets loose a little then i think you should move on and find someone else x she sounds totally unworth it if she is a bit of a player x its harsh but its a harsh world hunix

there are many ways you can do to find out if she like/love you, (actually in your statement she obviously liked you I mean no one in my girl best-friends put their head in my shoulder.) why don't you say to her what you really feel I think it's the best way but you must get ready of what she may answer. Maybe she is afraid, that why she said she love you like a brother i mean she's afraid because she don't want to throw the friendship that easily because when that friendship is gone, and love comes in, it's hard to take the friendship back again when the love is gone.

Just told her what you feel (In a romantic way, and in the right time) if she say no don't give there is another way, SHOW to her that you love her more than a friend..this way is slowly but surely

It seems like shes the type of girl with a lot of guy friends. And she just likes to flirt and get all over guys cause she knows shes cute. That's just wat i'm thinking. It mite not be true considering u know her more than I do. And it amazed me that u remembered those little things she does. U seem like an amazing guy. I know wat it feels like cause I'm going through the same thing kinda but she may seem just amazing to u but if she can't appreciate u the right way then I think u should just leave it alone for a while. Try to find someone better. I know it seems impossible, I kinda think so too but u have go to try. Good luck.

Wow! You are me 10 years ago.

You don't have much time! If you love her, you have to go for it and be brave. Its the hardest thing watching the girl you love going out with one of your friends. Take it from me.

I think she does like you. I think she regrets saying no to you last year and now she is in the mood for a relationship whch is why she might consider Lee. But she called you. She might not have called for advice on what to do, she might have called you to give you the chance to rescue her.

You need to spill the beans. There is no point in you denying yourself the chance of asking her out by waitng too long.

Do you ever watch Scrubs? There is a line from that which would be brilliant for you to say to her. This guy who is obsessed with this girl who is about to go out with someone else confesses his love to her at the last minute.

"If I had the chance to hang out with anyone in the whole world or sit around with you watching a crappy television show eating pizza, I would choose you everytime."

If you are going to go down, go down fighting! Take the plunge and do it now.

If I had the chance to go back 10 years and tell myself to get up off my *** and do what is needed, I would do it in a heartbeat. If you love her, you need to do the hard work and let nothing stand in your way. I hope you do. Best of luck to you.

Just ask her out. tell her that you really like her and you don't want her to go out with the other guy cas you want her to out with you. tell her exactly what you wrote up there - that before she rang you you were about to ring her to ask her out. if she tells you no, ask her why not. if she says she doesn't have feelings, then let her go (even if you think she does). she's not worth wasting your time on if she's not willing to give you the same love back. tough love but it's what you gotta do.

To make here in love with you , you must try to be more regardless , indiferent , casual . Try not to go to here and wait for here to come to you . At school when you meet just look here in the eye's and say "hello" . She will soon observe you behavior , and to be like that is what a women hates when for boy's they start to not exist in their hearts !!!! She will come to you and probably open a subject about whats happening and you just tell here what you are fealing ex: I love you but i see that i have no chance at you bla bla bla just tell here some stuff there . She will see that she is loseing you slowly and she won't like that because as far as i see your msg say's you are close to here alot . It is dificult to do this but just pretend even if in your heart you love here trust me you will win here like this . P.S pretend that you are regarless and indeferent like in a theatre play :P

I think Nicki might be just as confused as you are. You should talk with her face-to-face and sort things out once and for all. Make sure you are clear about the fact that you are interested in her so she knows what her options are.

you need to sit her down and tell her not to say a word while you explain all your feelings for her and then tell her how she feels but if you dont feel comfortable sitting her down try and do it over the phone or even write her a letter in the post.Have you seen the film "just friends" this is simular to your problem the girl really like him but not in a love relationship but he really loves her you should watch this film and take some tips on what not to do and what to do this is the link for the film.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0433400/