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how do you get over a guy who lives right next to you?

it was a stupid move to begin with when I moved into the same apartment complex as my boyfriend at the time. But I thought I would be safer and it'd be better cause I'd be closer to him. Well, I moved just around the corner from him. Then he moved to get a two bedroom so that he could have a roommate, and he moved right next to me. like, My apartment is 448, his is 447. His roommate's wall is my roommate's wall...

Well, we broke up about 7 months ago... yeah... I know, I feel pretty pathetic. But we didn't really stop seeing each other until January. He got a new girlfriend in February... I'm not over him, I always see his car, and yesterday I saw her at his car and felt really compelled to run into her with my car...

To get over him, I first tried to listen to music, got a little too into a singer who has a wife and kid. So to move away from that... I got into Marijuana... and now I feel like I"m obsessing over it and I don't want to. I don't like smoking alone because it makes me paranoid, but I did it yesterday just because of how bad I felt.

I don't want to be a pot-head

but I don't want to feel this pain anymore and I don't know how to make it go away, I can't move because I"m going to school, he's supposedly moving, but he's ****** lied before about it. How do you get over your ex when he lives right next to you?

I've tried hanging around other guys, but they just think I'm a piece of *** they can take. The only guy I felt remotely interested in started sexually harassing me. I don't talk to him anymore.

I've memorized my Ex's phone number, I can't get it out of my head. I've deleted it from my phone, I've deleted everything I can think of of his... and he's still not going away! I still think of him every god damn day... It's driving me insane!

::sigh::

... any suggestions?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Okay... sounds like he is over the relationship he had with you. Sounds like you need to get a hobby other that smoking out all the time. You don't want to become a pot head so stop smoking everytime you think of him. I think you should join a gym, learn to play a musical instrument, draw, write or hang out with friends at there pad. I'm not saying to avoid home I think you should try to get out more often.... keep yourslef busy. Maybe you need to have a final final talk with him. Slip him a letter or something telling him how you feel. What do you have to lose?

    Think you should just try to keep yourself busy other than hanging around your apartment window peeking...I know how that stuff makes you get.

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