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texting drama. What do you think?

I was bored earlier and went through my boyfriend's texts. Of course I found one from a contact called "M" at like 4am saying sorry they weren't looking at their phone and asked if he was awake. The text after that was from the same person, this time at 10am, and it just said "I want you." I have no idea what to think of this! I went through his sent and saw no sent texts to that person..

Sometime a couple weeks ago I was using his phone (I don't have a cell phone and choose to not have one) to text my brother and he asked if I was going through his texts and stated that he has nothing to hide from me.

Now he's been trying to tell me to stop talking to pretty much every guy I know. I'm no idiot, and I'm very aware of the psychology behind this.

What do you think, what would you do, and how would you bring this up with him?

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  • Jacob
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Get to know them better. This is not a task only to be accomplished through dating. The more you get to know him or her, the more you can tell if you like them as a friend or something else. Just talk and do fun activities with the person.

    Stop and consider why you like the person. There are many physically attractive and smart people out there. But if you see something beyond that really catches your attention, you've marked this person as unique and probably like them. Why else would they stand out from so many?

    Consider how many times you think about the person. If you find yourself thinking about this person several times a day, and they are happy thoughts that possibly make your heart beat faster, then you probably like them.

    Think how often you laugh at their jokes etc. When you like someone, you will find yourself laughing at things even if they aren't that funny. This is a natural attempt to make them feel appreciated.

    If the one conversation between you and the person is stuck in you head and you cant stop telling people about it. this means it was important to you, and you probably like the person.

    Consider how much you try to be near them. If you've planned your walking speed to catch a glimpse of them as many times of the day as possible, there is a good reason for that.

    Think about how you feel if you touch him or her, by accident or on purpose. If you're still thinking about brushing shoulders several hours ago in school, then that is a special thought and you probably like them.

    If you feel you're ready for a relationship, and are confident enough for a positive response, then just go ahead and ask them out. If you're unsure of their feelings for you, there are several wikihows on how to tell if someone likes you.

  • 1 decade ago

    well just ask who it is if hes your boy friend you should be able to talk about that kind of stuff but be sure to let him know you trust him if you dont trust him then you probably shouldnt be together.

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