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My brother kissed me!?

Ok so we were at a dance and I decided to go out In the hall for some fresh air. My brother came outside and we just started talking nothing unusual. Then he put his arms around my waist and and we started making out. I didn't even try to stop him because I kinda liked it. When we got home my parents weren't there so We ended up having sex. I feel so so so weird now I have no idea what I was thinking. Now whenever we're alone he'll just grab my boobs or put his hands down my pants. I'm so confused and I don't know what to do?!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    You have to decide - do you want him to be your permanent lover? the man in your life?

    or do you want something else? Do you want to date, meet other men, etc. Forget for a minute he is your brother (if you decide to stay with him, you will have to change how you look at him), and think about him as a guy. Is he the type of person you want to be with sexually, or is there selfishness, taking advantage going on?

    If you want him, then make up your mind; commit to be his real partner, and deal with all the flack life throws at you. But if you don't want him, tell him so, because it isn't fair to lead him on.

    Don't decide out of guilt or what other people think or would say. Do what your heart tells you. Talk to him. Find out how he feels - is he just having fun, or does he want more than just sexy fooling around, breaking rules?

    Whichever way you decide, don't feel guilty or ashamed about it. This kind of thing happens to lots of girls exploring sex, you don't have to make it be a drama trauma, just a learning experience.

  • 1 decade ago

    It shouldn't have gone that far. Is this your stepbrother or your biological brother? Was this an experiment that you thought would work and it backfired? I know how it is; I have been there and how I got my brother to stop was that I pointed out to him this was not right;

    I might have understood it if he was my stepbrother, but my brother is nearly 10 years younger than me and this happened when I was 47. I told my brother that I love him, but he couldn't be hitting on me because I am his older sister. Apparently my brother, as yours appears to, liked it. There is a word for it; it is called incest and it is wrong in the eyes of God. What if you get pregnant? You need to sit down with him and discuss this with him.

    Good luck, dear.

    Source(s): Personal experience.
  • 1 decade ago

    feelings are dangerous VERY dangerous, its animalism at its finest. this wont stop unless you get out of there, because the boundry that is set by normal people to NOT do things (such as rape, sleeping with a family member, child porn, beastiality etc) has been broken. it will escalate very rapidly so....well the onlt advice i can give is chop off your bros balls, cos if hes willing to do THIS, who knows where it will end ya know?

  • 1 decade ago

    banjos, i hear banjos. if this is real, you need to tell an adult because if your blood related and you get pregnant, well lets just say thats gonna be interesting christmas if this is a joke, its not funny. i hear the banjos again.

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  • oh yeah you know what's going on, you were not born yesterday!!!I hope you were wearing protection or else we'll see you on the Maury Povich show, or Jerry Springer ,tell him to see his mother if he wants to be doing that

  • 1 decade ago

    move out of western north carolina right now!! get to new england where that stuff is unheard of

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you are kidding right??

    girl you better tell your parents or an adult. are you stupid or something?

    How can kissing and having sex with your brother feel good?

    that is just wrong and nasty. yuk.

    A horny bimbo is what you are.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You guys must be from Alabama.

  • 1 decade ago

    thats messed up

    unless he's ur step brother then its ok

  • 1 decade ago

    ok this is your BOTHER!!!! FAMILY!!!!! If you guys are related by blood some how, STOP! if not, up to you.

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