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How to sweep my ex off her feet?
So my ex gf broke it off with me back in december, and I really, truly am in love with this girl. She basically gave me the "lets be friends" speech. Well, after a miserable couple of months where i ended up in therapy and watching her kind of be "with" my best friend, I finally got my life back on track. Football's offseason workout program started, so i lost bout 20 pounds and have gotten totally ripped. I talk to her all the time now, almost as much as when we were dating. And its not awkward at all, whereas before, I have to admit it was a lttle awkward. I know her and her family better now; I just need a way to sweep her off her feet. How do I tell her how much she means to me w/o coming off like a stalker or a needy jerk?
6 Answers
- MarcoLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
Don't be pushy about it. You burned the bridge once before, and trying to cross it before you fully repaired it will mean it will collapse again, no matter how good you think that bridge looks to cross.
Just keep playing it cool as the friend and then begin to entertaining her with the idea about how she would feel if you two started going out again.
If she's still with your best friend, aw good luck there. You'll end up looking like jerk to someone, if not the both of them if you try pulling a move.
- Anonymous5 years ago
Truth? You probably can't. Ask yourself the following two questions: 1. Why did you two break up? 2. Is the problem completely resolved? If the answer to the second question is no, then you are wasting your time, and you are wasting her time, too. Be a man, leave her alone, keep yourself busy, and get over it. If the problem is resolved, all you can do is call her, ask to meet up, and then talk it over like a mature male. Maturity and commitment might woo her, if anything can. If it works, then great! If that doesn't work, then it simply is not meant to be. Don't be the creepy stalker ex-boyfriend. Good luck!
- Mike PLv 61 decade ago
Your a glutton for punishment going back to someone who dumped you. I guess the saying goes that we can't have too much of a good thing! In your case, can't have too much of someone dumping you.
I was kind of kidding above to make a point that the girl rejected you for a reason. Going back to her is like going backwards and that generally is a bad thing to do as one is always supposed to go forward in life.
You need to wish her well and move on. Period. No more looking back and living in the past. Look ahead to newer girls and better times!
- jon dLv 41 decade ago
Ask her how she feels about you then take it from there. Personally I'd stay just friends.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
well if she has a bf i dont think its wise
but u should talk to her if she means alot
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