Girls asking guys out? Girls KISSING guys?

I am a guy.

It is not weird for a girl to ask out a guy. It is starting to happen more now, but some girls raised with old fashioned values believe they're coming off as desperate just by asking. In my opinion, sleeping with a guy on a first date is desperate, and that's regardless of who asked out the other.

It is okay for a girl to lean in for a kiss. Guys who respect women will be somewhat conservative with their aggressiveness. Pretty much all guys are oblivious to subtle hints, so leaning in for that kiss is the only way you can hint at it in a way that he will understand.

Some guys have an abundant amount of male pride, so they will feel insulted if you take the initiative on that stuff. I think that's silly. Your best defense against those types of guys is to point out that if he wasn't so slow to make his move then you wouldn't have to.

To be honest I dont think it is that weird for girls to ask out guys. It is a manly job but so what if the girl wants to do it she can do it. Also I think its alright for a girl to lean it for a kiss - im a girl who likes the boy to lean in but in my last relationship my boyfriend got a bit fed up with him having to make the first move. So, just go ahead.

I hope I helped :) x

It is weird for a girl to ask a guy out or to lean in for a kiss

It's a bit unusual, but not weird. Girls who have asked me out got a date. It threw me off stride (I'm used to being the one doing the chasing), but some girls are smart enough to see that I'm trying to look good for them and that my teasing is flirting, and a few of them decide to go for it before I change my mind and start talking to someone else. For kissing, I'm assuming you are talking about a first kiss--women can definitely initiate kissing later on. When a woman initiates the kiss, she should go for a kiss on the cheek or something quick and playful. There can be bumped heads otherwise, and you'll mess up the man's technique and get doubts about himself in his head if you go first. (I'd say it's the same for men too, except that they should go for the lips--but that first kiss should be short, if it isn't, it sends things toward the bedroom and not toward a relationship.)

I think its kinda cute when a guy asks, "So can I kiss you now?" A guy asked me that before and I just thought it was sweet. I mean, spontaneous kisses are great too, but I see nothing wrong with a asked kiss.

Well, it's fine for both. I know I was the first one to tell my current boyfriend that I liked him, I made our mutual friend tell him that he should ask me out (he doesn't know that I did that though, he still thinks it was the mutual friend's idea. haha), and I was the first to kiss him. But he's really shy so I'm pretty sure that not much of that would have happened if I hadn't been first.

the world has changed from the past.

I have no problems with a guy asking a girl or vice versa.

if a girl wants to kiss a guy then more power to her.

the way I see it now days fair is fair, why should one wait for

the other to make the move.

i think that it's weird for a girl to ask a guy out

but not weird to lean in for a kiss..

i think t he guy should ask first but unfortunately sometimes the guy is too shy a nd needs a little help

Of course it's ok, why wouldn't you want the girl to show interest once in a while?