Is he trying to hint at something?

I've been seeing this guy for a while but lately we haven't talked/hung out as much as we used to. We both know we'd never work out due to long distance and we just aren't good for each other in that way, but we always end up together. It's almost like Carrie & Mr. Big without the happy ending, lol.

Anyway I talked to him tonight for the first time in a few weeks and he says he "trying to be a good boy." Completely fine by me. Then as we're talking he starts telling me about his day and how the only thing that would make it better would be if I was there giving him a massage. I reminded him what he just said about being good. Then he says something like "Well it's pretty late already so if you did come down you'd have to stay over ... which could happen ..."

So I'm on the other line thinking "wtf?" And I said that it sounded to me like he was trying to talk me into coming down. He said "No, I'm gonna do my part to be good" And I agreed and said that I'd do my part. But he kept mentioning about me going over his house. It just sounded to me like he was trying to convince himself or something.

So, my question: Does he really mean it when he says we're done?