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Do you just decide to change to gay and then hetero?
My ex SO, told me she was lesbian and wanted to be there every step of the way for transition, yet on more than 2 occasions (2 physically) she cheated on me with guys- now I am hurt inside and out because for 3 years I have been there for her and her daughter and all she does is brag about sleeping with one of the 2 and says things change- I didn't want to give up but how do I make the pain stop? Potential Breast Cancer caused a delay in my transition- did she ever care at all- or is she just the type of person that uses others?
Just to be clear I am not asking nature versues nurture, I dobelieve you are born predetermined with your sexual orientation- but everything she has done has really made me question if I should go through all the extra risks of transitioning when Im already terribly unhappy and dont want to be jerked around again by someone. Financially I did all the support and carried the 2 jobs and financial responsibility- it jus sucks because tbh- I miss being a parent and I am clinically diagnosed DSD- so this sucks
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
aw that's so bad, no offense but she just sounds like a mole. You should find somebody who actually cares about your feelings. And no, most people don't just decide to change from gay to straight. She might be bisexual and just selfish or she might be deciding who she wants to be, either way, she sounds like bad news if you're looking for stability.
- 1 decade ago
she seems like the type that uses others yo! but she cood have cared some but prob not a lot sry!!! u shood find some1 trustworthy
- 1 decade ago
just look for someone else i don't think being with her is going to make things better
