Am I damned to regret for the rest of my life for "trying" to love someone first time?

You can't read her mind, so you really don't know how she decided to do that, and if she's having it out with several guys, she sound like she's in denial about the way she broke up.

One thing's for sure. This relationship is over.

You're not the first to be rejected, and you won't be the last. This is not the last time you will be rejected either. However, you are proving one thing for sure:

Y o u w i l l l i v e ! ! ! !

Do like it, that she left you? Heck no! Of course not! But you don't need to lost sleep over your imagined failings either.

She left you. She had her reasons, and they might have been good reasons or bad reasons. If you think she had some good reasons, then the next step is to do something about that. However, if you aren't sure what the reason was, you just need to accept this rejection and move on.

Chances are she figured out this wasn't working for her, and it might not have been anything you did; it might just have been "something." That's really pretty typical. A couple goes out on a date and they have a good time, but they don't date again. No reason -- just not the right chemistry.

So quit beating yourself up, unless you have really good reason to believe there's something you did.

You will probably be rejected again, but, as is the case here -- you'll live.

The alternative is to not date at all, and that is NOT living.

As someone else once said to me, I pray that you thrive.

Only if you wish to regret it. Love has many of the qualities

of all other human emotions which many of us feel and few

of us understand. Since we never know for certain what our

true feelings are, we must take chances with them in order

to find out. Sometimes we get hurt when we do this but at

all times they offer us the opportunity to learn more about

ourselves and others as well.

I suspect your next deep love affair will free you from the

pain of this one about which you speak.

It might have been "true love" for YOU, but apparently it was not true love for her. That's why she can leave so easily, but you remain in pain. All I can tell you is that it eventually gets better. Not fast, not soon, but eventually. And then, you'll meet someone else.

Either way you posted this question in the wrong section, but you're forgiven.

Often, in relationships, one person is more in love than the other, and that is why people break up. Forgive her, as she has given you the opportunity to learn something about yourself; and don't settle for less than what you give in love.

Happens to the best of us.

My last girlfriend left me a week after we started talking about getting married, and f*cked several guys immediately afterward.

My tip for understanding women: you can't.

It will hurt for a while, especially being betrayed by one whom you truly loved, and it appears her love was not as genuine in return. There will be another for you, one who will be as true to you as you are to her. Time will heal.

Some women move on more easily than men do because they're further down the evolutionary ladder

Hey you're Middle Eastern. Does that mean you have a massive c0ck?

Any loss of someone we love is hard to endure, but when that person leaves us because they don't love us, it cuts our egos to the core.

Time heals all wounds, my friend. Do not judge love on this one foray.

Life kicks you in the butt sometimes my friend, if a woman does this to you it obviously is not working and she deserves none of your attention. Don't give it to her it's all she is looking for.

People have different ways of dealing with heartbreak. Maybe she is trying to fill that hole (haha) with other people.