Boy problem..........HELPPP?

Sounds like he likes you but he likes Maddy as well. You should talk to him about it and sort it all out.

You have two options.

1. Let him come to you and this means still showing an interest but letting him do the work.

2. At the party show an interest and it is likley to go somewhere, and by the end, if nothing has happened come clean and ask him out or make a move yourself otherwise nothing will happen again. The party is you best shot!

if he has told you he likes you both, sounds like at that time he hadnt made up his mind who he wanted. then, having spent a week with her and ignoring you i think hes made his choice pretty clear.

if he hast replied to your texts - thats pretty rude, and it shows a lack of respect for you - i would take that as a warning signs.

dont worry about whether he thinks you're a prude - you dont want to go chasing after him offering him a lot more when he's into this other girl more than you - you could end up feeling cheap and hurt if you do.

i agree with the advice your friends gave you - you've made your move. now wait for him to make one back.

well, i sorta went through the same thing and it feel so bad being the backup chick and you may not want to admit it...make him feel like you can do ten times better flirt with other people stop texting he's wonder why your not texting back and he'll start wondering what's up and you can have a choice want a guy who makes you an option or leave him hanging and let him know you can do better

definitely don't do anything that will look desperate.

If he likes this maddie girl- his loss.

Don't be dumb and try and one up her skankness just to prove you're not a prude.

The type of girls a fella likes to keep- are the type that kiss sweetly. and like they mean it.

Slutty kisses- rushing in with your tungue and violating his face- for a first kiss- is a dumb idea.

Just play it cool. Wait for him to come around.

And if he doesn't. There will be other boys I promise. Life is long.

hun, hes not into you,,, im sorry i think hes just trying to be with you till maddy realized he liked her.

don't text him hun, you deserve some one who wants only you.

never be less than your worth hun and your worth a lot .

Some times we like people who don't fully like us in return, this is hard and some times very pain full, but later on down the track your mr right will come and he will only have eyes for you.

adult males have their own stuff to tackle. sessions do suck- i'm not denying that. yet, i'm going to take cramps over a public *****. Dudes are curiously continually sneaking around attempting to shift issues around so it is not obtrusive. teen adult males have plenty testosterone of their structures that they are in a position to easily be doing homework and by surprise, it particularly is like, "hi down there, what are you doing?" (That has exceeded off to adult males i know). additionally, if a dude has a ***** at school, anybody laughs at him. If a woman has a leak on her era, the ladies sympathize and the lads are terrified. additionally, females get an outstanding thought of what it ability to be a woman. There are much extra help communities for women than for adult males. Boys strengthen up with out fathers, with damaging portrayals of fellows and fathers in a great number of media (fathers are continually incompetent whilst in comparison with the mothers, or merely desire intercourse, etc) and no preparation in the thank you to extremely grow to be a guy. i'm fortunate adequate to be with a guy who's what i could call a gentleman of the previous college. we are equivalent, yet we are additionally distinctive. We supplement one yet another's differences. besides the shown fact that, maximum adult males are not so fortunate and are not getting the sturdy male community that they choose. additionally, they get drafted. In Israel, females get drafted too, yet for a three hundred and sixty 5 days decrease than boys do. Boys have their own issues. All issues considered, i could somewhat be a woman. (additionally, whilst it particularly is chilly, we are in a position to thieve their jackets. And as quickly as we are snuggling gazing a action picture or enjoying video games, females get to thieve the blanket. And boys purchase us stuff. and that they typically make the 1st circulate romantically. And...you get my element. females have it extra effective.)

ask yourself what you did to get him to like you first and try to do that. Remember he liked you first. Don't let him treat you like his optional second course let him choose between you and her. And btw it seems that Maddy is being a real ***** with you, so don't talk to her and show her that you are better! Pose as a challenge to your guy. Guys love a girl who challenges them.

Your friends are right - wait - and let him come to you!

You'd be suprised just how much a little tiime does for guy that has 2 girls on his string! Don't don't appear to be too easy - when he does begin to come back your way!

Stay Safe - Have fun!

Talk to him face to face - texting is bad, it let's them get out of answering. Tell him that he can't like two girls at the same time and hope to go somewhere with it. Tell him to come to your party, make it clear you like him, and let whatever happens happen.