Is what I'm feeling anxiety?

This doesn't sound like anxiety, it sounds like a typical heartbreak. A lot of men, particularly young ones, are not in tune with their own emotions, let alone the emotions of others. They think and act selfishly, which it sounds like this guy is doing. He is not ready to be in a relationship. It's hard to understand now, but I think pursuing this is going to lead down a worse path, and lead to regret later in your life. Boys, especially first loves, are so difficult to get over. But..you have to do it. This is not someone who has your best interests in mind, at least not at the present moment, and this cannot lead to your happiness. You're lucky to have someone like your mom to be there for you at your low points because a lot of girls lack this. I've been where you are, trust me, and my mother got me through it- I have her to thank. I had a boy that I thought was the love of my life. A year ago, I was miserable and thought that things could never be good again. A year later, I'm with someone else, and have been for 11 months- things are amazing- better than ever-MUCH better for me than the other boy (my first love- this is a much deeper love). This goes to show how quickly things can, and will, change and how many other matches- better matches- are out there for you.

Sarah, it is common to believe that if one gives a name to something that then one knows what it is and then can get the appropriate solution, like taking medication or eliminating the disturbing thing.

Your feelings have a cause and you can give it a name or find the reason in outside conditions, people or situations. You can say: I feel like this because... and find the reason giving the fault to something or someone. But what happens is, that YOU are REACTING to the outside and this has to do in the first place with YOURSELF.

So it is your condition or more exact: Your unconscious concept how things should be and when this is not fulfilled then you are reacting or you feel happy when it is fulfilled. To change this you will have to do quite a lot, for example: Finding out about yourself, what is real and what you have adapted from society as concepts that are based on a superficial, dualistic and materialistic world view.

People living out of concepts that are common and established in general and individually, - creating dreams, hopes, beliefs and the self image of ones personality. Out of all this there are coming expectations and the need and longing to fulfill these. But reality is mostly quite different than ones concepts about it and so we don't get what we want, reacting with anger, sadness etc. Then changing the partner, the job or ones surrounding and then finding out that one repeats the same as before.

Going through life disappointed and angry, getting sick on other levels because all is connected and is influencing each other. Until one is ready to ask questions and not just feeling as a hopeless victim.

You are asking, so I can think that you are ready for an answer: You are in a growing process that at the same time is a healing process. You are separated from yourself wanting to complete concepts you have made to your own. You are living through these concepts so you are not able to relate to life and you can't respond freely only with your reactions. This makes that you are depending on people and conditions. To get out of this you need to clear up your unconscious background, find out how you can do this. Then you will feel good within yourself not depending on others and outside conditions.

What is happening now to you with people is your learning process in which you will grow. You will grow beyond your present condition and you will be free and fulfilled. To get there it might be often hard work and suffering might be part of it, but what you will get is real and not based on fake...

There is much more to find out and you will need to search. If my writing triggers more questions, then ask. You are surrounded by answers if you are ready to receive and you know or will soon know that real answers are coming from within yourself.

BeiYin

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i think that maybe you want to think that this relationship is working out but deep in the inside of your heart you know that it isnt and ur gonna have to tell him its her or me and if he dosent breakup with her hes not the guy for u