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Are girls mean to me because I'm pretty and have a nice body?

You know I've never really thought of myself as pretty. My mother has always told me I was gorgeous and I know that parents are supposed to say this so I've never given it much thought. My friends tell me I'm pretty too and they are jealous of my face and big blue eyes. Sometimes I get embarrassed because I hate being the centre of attention. Boys are always checking out my chest and it makes me so self conscience. I can't even hide it with anything I wear. I've always developed faster then other girls and so they can get a little jealous. They don't understand how awkward it is for me. They always tell me I'm skinny and get mad at me for having such a big chest and skinny body. I hate it! I work out and do crunches every day to have such a nice body. It doesn't come easy. I can't wear anything even a little revealing because I end up looking like a ****. Other girls in my grade can wear bikinis because they are mostly flat and really skinny. Most boys at this age seem to like that kind of body better and I feel like a giant next to all the petite little blondes girls. Oh did i mention I was a brunette? Alot of people tell me to dye my hair or to wear make up. I don't want to and I like my natural color. My mom tells me I don't need make up so I only wear it to special events. And on top of all the dirty looks I get from girls boys don't seem to like me. Sure they admire my body but they won't ask me out. I don't get it. This is such a confusing age. I probably sound so vain right now, but I am also a great dancer. My specialty is belly dancing. At school dances everyone is pretty much against the wall and some girls won't dance with me. They use to until boys starting noticing and coming to dance with us. Do you think that all of this is because they are jealous? If so why won't boys like me!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Sounds like you are at a confusing age..I am assuming 14ish?

    If your older don't take offense...

    You sound like you are gorgeous and moms are usually right .:)

    You should'nt feel as though you have to hide your body, although if you are younger than showing cleavedge in grade 7 or 8 might not be that suitable, and the boys will definatley be staring.

    One thing that I have learned through out the years is that Yes in fact Girls are not only very Teritorial, but are really mean...

    Girls tend to be to-faced, and I found that if they had low self-esteem they would try to pick other people apart to feel better....

    I'm sure I have done that aswell.

    Keep your Chin up! and shrug off Jelous girls, shrug off drooling boys and just keep being the best person you can be!

    You'll figure this stuff out sooner or later.

    When your older the catty-ness with other girls does not get better...lol

    but I'm sure when your older you will find a way to deal with it calmly or you just won't care what they think.

    I couldnt deal with girls in high school...so majority of my friends are guys now....Good Luck Missy!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yeah, could be that they're jealous. You seem pretty young (maybe middle school?) and it's common at that age. Once people grow up a little more, they'll realize that you're nice and alright to hang out with.

    This all depends on you being the bigger person now and not being mean or snotty. It's hard, i know, but if you stick it out, then things will improve with time

  • kmh :]
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I think they are all jealous.

    Maybe guys don't like you because they can sense that you are shy and self conscience about yourself. This is a really negative aspect. You may also not seem very approachable to the guys...I don't know.

    Try being more outgoing, and act like you are satisfied with yourself. That should be easier to do knowing that all the girls in your grade wish they could look like you.

    Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    You're not conceited, you're pretty and you know it.

    Just be happy with who you are, it is self-confidence that tops attractiveness.(:

    Of course they're jealous, when they get like that it's because they think you have everything. When they compliment you just compliment them back(or compliment them first.) This will make girls like you more, because you're kind to everyone and radiate happiness.

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  • back
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    properly, i'm no longer likely to lie. i'm am no longer pass over-usa-appropriate. i'm getting asked out lots however (which relatively pisses my boyfriend off thinking we've been jointly for 10 months) yet I asked a number of them why they enjoyed me and that i've got been given: "Your eyes are spectacular, i ought to stare at them for hours while not having bored. They tutor the warmth soul interior you." "you have a coronary heart of gold. you're able to particularly help out on the females's look after than pass on your well known band's stay overall performance. no person does that." (I also have a component for helping out. My family contributors is in the top classification and that i can't stand observing each little thing whilst some human beings have no longer something) And it is what my boyfriend informed me: "You define attractiveness. I pass to sleep questioning to myself why I deserved a individual such as you. you do no longer yell, you by no ability choose human beings on something, you by no ability turn faraway from all of us, you're straightforward, and you do no longer care what human beings think of approximately you. to no longer point out your eyes. They strike a cord in me of a chocolate ocean that i ought to swim in all day. I swear whilst the mild hits you i will pay attention a faint choir making a song in the backround. i admire you, toddler" ~~~~~~~~ i do no longer think of all men seem for a reasonably face or a effective physique. i think of maximum of them could seem for a sturdy character. that's what authentic attractiveness is. The face and physique are the treasure chest however the actual treasure is the guy they're.

  • 1 decade ago

    oh please you know you like it! The same thing happens to me girls are like that because they are jealous. but i like it when girls give me dirty looks, its usually cause their boyfriend it staring!

  • 1 decade ago

    somebody's conceited...

  • 1 decade ago

    oh please, get over yourself.

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