cheating cheating cheating !!!!!!!!!!!!!?

It's all about making decisions and living to them. My opinion is that people should be true to themselves and their partners. If you love them, be loyal. If your feelings have changed, then you be honest with them and you move on. I'm not blind to possibility of hurting the other's feeling but they deserve truth and you'll set them free sooner. No cheating _ or lying needed.

Cheating seems much more common in this age only because it's so easy. All a person has to do is go on sites, use snapchat (it deletes the messages) etc... People can put locks on their phone, not let their partner see it. A person makes a choice to cheat. I know that cheating can be lack of communication or affection it seems. I am a woman and am always worried about cheating. In this day and age, it seems okay. Cheating is not okay.

Yeah I think that all the time...it's so hard to fully trust someone, especially if you've been hurt in the past by a cheater. Two of my most serious ex-boyfriends cheated on me, one with a girl and one with a guy....and after hearing all the stories of my friends being cheated on, cheating on their lovers themselves and hearing on here how so many have cheated and been cheated on, it's hard to have faith that there still are loyal people out there... I really think it comes down to an insecurity thing, because if people can't commit to one person...that's telling you something.

Sometimes my bestest bestest friend and I talk about how she and I should date, because we have both been cheated on and we how it feels and we would never cheat on each other, but unfortunately I don't feel for her the way I feel for men.

It's going to take me a long time to fully fall in love and trust some one again and I just hope the next guy I date is patient enough to wait for me...

I know. People seem to be doing it more flippantly now, and it's like, "oh yeah I got with this other chick on the weekend" or "yeah this hot guy asked me out and i said yes."

I used to feel the same...I thought that if I just closed myself off from love, I would be safe from being hurt. But...cliche alert...it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Imagine dying without ever knowing how it felt being in love, even just for a little while.

You can't give up on love just because you have been cheated on! and you may feel more safe being alone right now. but in a while being alone will feel...well...lonely.

You should try to meet new people and i'm sure you will find someone who doesn't cheat and who loves you.

yes cheating is everywere.... this might seem weird to say especially coming from a female who has never cheated but has been cheated on! honestly yes it hurts like hell... but people cheat not because they dont love you or care about u.. they are intrested to see what else is out there! in my case i was cheated on because he said i didnt seem like i was into him anymore.. and that I never acted like i cared( which is crazy) but anyways... he cheated on me.. and i found out and it broke me.. i took it hard! and for him to hear my reaction to it did something to him! we broke up i wouldnt talk to him blah blah blah the normal routine.. but it made him realize what he had and you never know what u have until it is gone...it took me a while to talk to him..after billions of phone calls and texts to me AND MY JOB and me acting careless.. made him want me even more! now we are engaged... im not saying he wont do it again but i believe every one deserves a second chance which is what i gave him and he proved to me that he does care... just harden you heart for the worse.. thats really all you can do when it comes to love!!

oh and for the record- girls like assholes.. its crazy to say... but that mr nice sensitive never yell or get mad type of guy dont work.. at least it dont for me and 70% or the girls i know! not saying to turn into this big jerk or anything.. just saying give the girl a little competition something worth fighting for!! this is no such thing as "the perfect relationship" everyone has there problems!!

Sometimes life seems cruel. But we learn it as we go through different stages. It is just that your right person is not here yet. Don't worry, your person will be there when the right time comes.

yeah anymore the world is cheating.guys are evil.girls are to.but we cant control what our boyfriend/girlfriend does. they miss out on a wonderful relationship when they cheat.no one is worth it anymore. ppl cheat all the time.i jsut figured out my boyfriend is married and idc. the wife can put up with his crap cause i dont wanna be with him.cheaters arnt worth ur time.they aint even worth talking about.their low lifes and diserve to be dumped.

I agree cheating is bad, it comes from your life Style and back ground what you got and what you don't have,everyone is looking for more they are never satisfy

very true most people do cheat but not all it depends on how much respect people have. i could never start over now does cause so many people divorce its crazy.