Friends husband is a Jerk?????

That guy sounds like a total d-bag. She should grow a pair and get the eff outta there. First thing she should do is get a job and not let him tell her she can't.She has to establish some sort of independence. Put the kids in a day care and as soon as she has enough money for her own place, get the kids and drop that loser. He'll be the one that has to pay the child support. Bet he cries like a little b itch too!

I think that it takes a whole new level of male boldness to make plans without first informing the second party. I mean are we living in the My Three Sons era again where women are supposed to stay home and take care of their husbands/families and not have a say? I think that you're friend should grab those kids up and run far away before she loses her voice completely.

you are able to start up up with putting very own limits with this guy. on each occasion he makes comments approximately your breasts remind him that that variety of habit isn't appropriate. some everybody is particularly like that and not being serious, yet while it makes you uncomfortable talk up and arise for your self. you're able to be handling this with the guy who's making you experience uncomfortable. you additionally can communicate on your buddy and see how those movements of his make her experience and if she plans to take any action, yet once you place good very own limitations with this guy he only could back off. If he turns into extra of a jerk or abusive or harassing then your husband has each good to step in. additionally comprehend the variety you gown around him. in the adventure that your breast are on show once you circulate out you're probable requesting the attention subconsciously.

He is abusive. You should tell her that she needs to tell him that she is unhappy and give his reason why. If he really does care about her, then he will try to make the relationship work.

It sounds like he has insecurity issues. He probably realizes how much of a loser he really is, so he wants to hide his wife out of fear she will find someone better. But, he is actually just ruining the relationship all by himself.

Hey, sounds like Edward and Bella.

When you are in a relationship that has a partner controlling it is not healthy.

This is not romance, it not protective love. It is not love.

Soon he will be hitting her. Seriously, seek help or get out

sounds like a lot of women i know. i wouldn't put up with it thats for sure. your right he is a control freak and that type of man usually turn out to be abusive. tell her how you feel and see if she wants to get out. if she decides to leave and fers for her safety. she can call the non emergency line and hav a police officer stay with her at her house while she packs her stuff. best of luck to her.

tell your friend to get out now, he is not worth it, both physical and mental, he is using her for his own personal use, a woman with a college degree, can make it own their own, loving this kind of men can be very troubling, get a life of her own, away from this kind of men. and have the peace of mind, many women either end up abused or physically and mentally damage after wards, tell your friend she has all kinds of good friends who will help her, but she has to make that choice.

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Unfortunately there isn't anything you can say to her that will open her eyes to this controlling man. All you can do is be there for her when she has finally had enough. I hope it doesn't escalate to violence, this type of relationship frequently does. Just be there for her and listen to her. Good luck.

Hate to say this but if she stays she's as responsible for the outcome of her life....

Remember: Life is just a series of missed opportunities.

Tell her that that's not normal healthy behavior in a relationship (or anyone for that matter), and she needs to get out.