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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Sex question - bit confused?

i understand sex lol, im just a bit confused about why he doesnt *** or anything, like how could you hold that back instead of pulling out ?

Update:

My boyfriend and i have been having sex for a few months now and im a little confused. When we have sex we dont use a condom, i didnt know why he didnt want to but then we used it a couple of times and like it made him lose his erection. When we have sex for some reason he manages to not *** during it but when he pulls out he doesnt either, it's like he's stopping himself from doing it. I cant get my head round how he manages to stop cumming? any one understand this?

Update 2:

Thanks for your answers so far guys lol. He has had to stop lots of times because he was about to *** and he has before.Its just cuz we're not actually using protection that he basically has to stop himself

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    hm.

    i must say that it is irresponsible of you both to be having intercourse without a condom.

    the 'pull out' method and the 'stopping yourself' methods are not really reliable because men usually produce a substace called pre-*** which contains sperm. you cant stop this and most men aren't even aware of it.

    for more responsible sex try the pill or wearing a condom or not having penitrative sex at all. there are many other safer options for you to try. I personally am in awe that you are not pregnant already.

  • 1 decade ago

    I find that the condom is covering the penis too tightly,

    as a matter of fact, it's HUMID inside.

    It simply couldn't breath itself.

    Just imagine that you're sitting in 3 feet square room

    w/o the window.

    So how long can you breath in there ?

    And the rubber that sticks to our penis are simply

    can't be compare with your skin's natural tissue.

    Yours is SOFT naturally but the rubber is totally rough.

    It make the mood is not there and we really hates to get erection.

    Source(s): That's why a lots of people get STD's. LOVL.
  • 1 decade ago

    What is your boyfriend's problem? My boyfriend prefers sex without a condom but he uses one for me because I want peace of mind! (I'm on the pill too!) I can't believe people can be so wreckless when it comes to sex, newsflash-you can get pregnant by the pulling out method!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Your first words were "I understand sex".

    I think not. You seem to have been asleep when the teacher did the bit about what happens when you keep having unprotected sex. ....you know,.... the bit about missing your period, buying a pregnancy test kit, the little blue ring and.... "OMG I'm pregnant".

    What an eejit you are. And if your b/f is telly you he stays inside you but doesn't come, you are an even bigger eejit for believing him!!

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  • David
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Well, some guys are able to orgasm without ejaculating, but it is uncommon.

    It is however a technique that can be learned so he may have learned. It's called tantric sex. It is not a guaranteed prevention for pregnancy though, the male actually seeps semen, this is commonly referred to as precum, and you can become pregnant from it.

  • 1 decade ago

    your boyfriend doesnt like the sensation condoms give him , try and get him condoms that are a better fit for the size of his penis. Once he has relaxed a bit he might not hold back on ejaculating.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Boys try not to *** straight away so it can last longer.

    If you're not using any other protection, like the pill etc, he still has pre *** and you could still get pregnant.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Irresponsible sex, these days, can kill you. Becoming a mother at a young age can destroy your plans for the future.

    The pill does not protect against deadly, sexually transmitted, diseases.

    Remember this phrase . . . "No party hat . . . no party".

    If he can't deal with a condom . . . that's HIS problem, but make that YOUR solid rule, until you are married.

  • Ryz
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Have you ever head of pre ***....you can still get pregnant even if he pulls it out

  • 1 decade ago

    One can control his ejaculation there is nothing strange in that. Condom does delays bit. There are also medicine available to hold on longer.

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