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anyone else ttc and feel like this?

my period ended today and i carn't tell you how tearful i feel i don't now why normally this time of the month im normally happy b/c its the last day,maybe im worried about another month if i dont conceive i told a freind today that i feel like giving up, can anyone expain why we feel like this normally i feel like this at the begining of my periods but not at the end thanks ladies im sending hugs and babydust to all ttc please no rude comments thanks again xx

Update:

also may be because my hubby has got sperm problems this doesn't at all xx thanks ladies for your answers so far xx

Update 2:

meant to say maybe because hubby got sperm problems that doesnt help at all xx

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  • 1 decade ago
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    as u have said ur hubby has sperm count problems. I would advice u to Bd on the 11thday of ur period and do not have sex after ur period. This all time will let ur husband have more and strong sperm. after 11thday have the intercourse on 13-14 day.

    I wish u all the best.

    Source(s): My mother and this actually worked out for a couple ttc since 2 yrs.
  • it doesnt get any better, and it is completely normal to feel this way. the same thing happened to me over and over again for 7 years. then we finally found out we were pregnant 3/4, just to find out 3/24 that the baby had stopped developing at 8 weeks(i was 10 weeks when we found out) and he was already gone.

    and I HAD given up...miracles DO happen, and we are TTC again and in the dreaded 2WW and driving myself crazy with every little thing I feel, and trying to convince myself that i am NOT pregnant that way the letdown isn't as bad IF in fact i'm NOT...i want to be pregnant more now after miscarriage then EVER BEFORE. before i just thought that it wasn't in the cards for us to have another...i have oone from a previous marriage and we share a child, but wanted another.

    keep your head up or at least try, even though I know how hard it is over and over again, and just try not to think about it.

    Hope this helps hun and good luck this coming month...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    For me its like I realize that now that my period is over I have to try again, it feels like an endless cycle of just trying with no positive outcome. Every month once I get my period its like another huge let down because I get so worked up and excited to just have all my hopes stomped on. I have been trying for 7 months now and nothing. But this month feels different for some reason so I'm keeping my fingers crossed.

  • 1 decade ago

    Of coarse you'd feel that way, it's hard to feel good when you try so hard and nothing has happened. IDK. The way I look at it is when I found out I was pregnant both times I wasn't trying it just happened. I just took care of myself, kept track of my periods and that in hand kept my spirits up. Both times I was having a great time and then I missed my period and bam there it was a positive line. Don't be so hard on you, I know it's hard to look at it like this but have faith in your body.

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