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My ex Is moving back. Problems!?

So last year I went out with this guy that me and my best friend liked. He had always sorta liked the friend but after she turned him down a couple of times he stopped asking her. I started liking him a LOT and then he asked me out and I of course said yes. Then my friend started liking him and she got really jealous it caused a lot of problems then. and even more when he dumped me. And asked her out about two weeks later basicaly me and fy friend always had issues of jealousy and stuff up until recently becaise i was waus so upset just thinking about how he dumped me for her and she didnt even care but they broke up and ut at the end Of last year he moved to deleware we started texting and we sorts kept in touch but then he started telling me that he didn't was t to talk to me and I had no idea why because it was so sudden so I finally just got tired of worying about it and forgot about him but he was only moving for a year and he is moving back this summer and the friend says she is gonna be friends with him but I have no idea what to do because I don want to have anyors drama or feelings for him a d I can't stop the friend from being his friend because I wouldn't do that and plus they have been friends since childhood until he stopped talking to her in the middle of the year so my question is what do I do since I am going to be exposed to h a d probably will end up talking to him a couple times also sorry for the lack of punctuation I'm typing on a iPod and it's hard please help

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  • Alex
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Well, you don't want to ignore him, but I've actually had a similar problem. I think that you should at least be casual with him, and let your friend be friends with him. If you still like him, but he doesn't like you, guess it's time to move on. You'll see him now and again, so be polite and say hi once in a while, and if he wants to talk about it, let him. If he apologizes, accept it. And if he tries to get back with you, kick him out the front door... if that sounds like a good idea. :)

    Source(s): exposure to people i don't want to see
  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    I suppose you spoke back your possess query on the backside of the query- new lady could finish it if she learned approximately a fling with the Ex. What could THAT do in your trust? I understand this is not what you desired to listen to, however spend the 12 months she is away getting to grasp her in emails, speakme at the mobile, and so forth. I have a sense after a 12 months clear of her and NO SEX WITH THE EX or any person else will upgrade your "obstacle" fairly slightly. Don't screw this up, wait and you're going to no longer remorse it. ;-)

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    wow, the guy kinda sounds like a douche, from what i've read. but deal with it...

    be the submissive one, let your friend do what she wants and keep your relationship with the guy platonic. it might be hard if you're still invested in him but i think you've just got to contemplate if its really worth it!?!

    best of luck to you though

    hilarious ryan,, you're getting off looking at whats mostly a lens flare.. that must take skill

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    your pretty hot

    hit me up

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