Ladies what would be your reaction to this scenario?

I'd be a hypocrite if I say that that thought won't come across my mind, but more so if we didn't end up in good terms. I'd probably feel like we have some unsettled business that we have yet to discuss. In the end, though, I'll see it as an opportunity to stitch up the past and make amends for old time's sake. We can still be good friends.

If I'm still in love with my ex and I don't love my husband, I would really get hurt and suffer every day of my life thinking how things would be better if I married my ex.

When I get married and if I love my husband and children, happy with my life, seeing my ex-boyfriend would never give me regrets. I will get curious, though. I will ask these questions to myself. What would my life be like if I married him instead? How many children would we have? What would our children look like? What did he liked about his wife? Does he love her more than he loved me?

No matter how much we love our current partner, we are still curious creatures. Sometimes, you wonder if you will be cuddling with your ex like you do with your partner if you married him/her (ex).

Reminds me of the song Cool by Gwen Stefani

It's hard to remember how it felt before

Now I found the love of my life

Passes things, get more comfortable

Everything is going right

And after all the obstacles

It's good to see you now with someone else

And it's such a miracle that you and me are still good friends

After all that we've been through

I know we're cool

I know we're cool

We used to think it was impossible

Now you call me by my new last name

Memories seem like so long ago

Time always kills the pain

Remember Harbor Boulevard

The dreaming days where the mess was made

Look how all the kids have grown, oh

We have changed but we're still the same

After all that we've been through

I know we're cool

I know we're cool

Yeah, I know we're cool

And I'll be happy for you

If you can be happy for me

Circles and triangles

And now we're hanging out with your new girlfriend

So far from where we've been

I know we're cool

It depends on how and why we broke up.

If I gave him up because of my weakness,

I'll regret it until I die.

6 years is not a joke.

If we've been together for that long,

then it would really be hard for me to move on.

If I see him with his wife and children,

I would try my hardest to hide my disappointment

cuz I don't wanna look like the biggest fool on earth.

As much as possible,

I don't wanna remember the old memories cuz it will only

make me feel like wanting to make the impossible happen

--and that is, to get back with him.

I can't blame him for turning away from me like I did to him

cuz that's his life and I can't do anything regarding that.

Well, me marrying another man is a different thing.

Even though I did that,

I might not be able to love again the way I loved him.

That's just me, okay? Well, I really can't tell cuz

I still don't know the pain of a wound that can not be healed.

That's a very tough case. I would feel like a complete mess and an idiot, and be depressed for a long period of time. But I will try to let go with all my powers. What could have been is what could have been. Pain- be gone!!

My heart would sink...♥;;

I would force myself to smile but feel torn apart inside...

I`m about to get teary even thinking about it... ｡：ﾟ(｡ﾉω＼｡)ﾟ･｡

Cos by next week, my boyfriend `n i are about to be 5 years `n 8 months of being together... I love him with all my heart that i`m even waiting for him until he`s through with his military service in Korea...

If he was the one that broke up with me `n i see him in the future with another woman... his wife `n baby... eventhough I`ve moved on `n married i would never love any other guy like i love him... *sigh*

Not at all. It was I who drove him to his present wife because I never intended to marry him nor do I love him. On the other hand, I attended his wedding and met his bride for the first time. Am a good sport!

Some memories leave a small tug..and even some "pinch" in one corner of our hearts. There is nothing we can do about it. We are pretty helpless when it comes to instances like this. Sure that hurts! hurts so bad...*tears*

i'd be happy for him. i'd rather not mope on the "what could have been".