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Asperger do you think a relationship and romance is possible?
Um well i have asperger is romance not possible for me.
I mean I would like a girl who well i can actually connect to and understand and feel her need and make her happy.
however from past relationship i always do stupid stuff which don't relies until months later how stupid it was. however to late and relationship is over. It annoying no madder how hard i try i cannot understand people and i try but every time the wrong image people get of me and it always end bad with gf or friends.
Any hint or help i would love.
to understand people and get along
P.S. plz don't comment if you don't got a good understanding of aspergers
no way will i ever go out with some one with Asperger.
sorry but i feel very uncomfortable around others like me i get a very terrible feeling.
4 Answers
- WolfieLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
i have a pretty good understanding of aspergers, as I have aspergers. I found out i had it when i was young so i had time to figure out ways to get around things. Read below, hope this helps:
I don't really understand people either. Sometimes i have to think about something for hours before I can come up with a reason why something happens.
Something I do is try and see things from the other persons view. I mean if you get to know them a little and focus really hard on what they're saying. If you're not good with facial expressions or body language try and ask someone what it means (don't ask the person who's doing the Expression or body language, ask a family member what it means). Reading books might help, because in books you get a variety of characters and personality's, and you can get to understand why that character might not like that thing or something, and then try to relate that to the people you know. Also if you read books they could point out mistakes people make, and then you can see why they made them, and try not to let the same thing happen to you.
In answer to your question: Yes it is possible. It would be very difficult, but it will be possible. Hope this helped
- Яα∂íǚм Яα∂íατǿſLv 71 decade ago
I have Asperger Syndrome too.
I had a girlfriend lat year, though we did break up... we still get on well. As with anyone, you just need to find the right kind of person. Often people with Asperger's might get on well together, so maybe you could join an online community for that.
- mchlmybelleLv 61 decade ago
You ask, yet truly only you have the answer (no offense intended).
Anything is possible, you need to "see", visualize what you want in your life and with discipline work towards.
Of course no easy task, especially with Asperger's.
......but Io believe it can be done.
Seek to move outside of your own comfort zone.
Be especially conscious of your words and actions.
There is the opportunity for love in your life, you have only to believe.
- 1 decade ago
My problem is I get into stupid relationships with people. I shouldn't have gone out with in the first place in retrospect. Then can't understand after wards why I dated them in the first place. The last one put me (metaphorically) into the hospital nuthouse, because i completely lost it. (well actually my mother did)
