Boyfriend Broke My Heart!!!! Just Days Later He's Dating Someone Else!!!Help!!?

Well I have a somewhat similar story. Me and my ex were together for a year. Then one day when he was in the shower i decieded to look through his text on his phone, to see who he was texting. A few months before I had found out that he was texting his ex gf, and then come to find out at the beggining of our relationship he slept with her. But i really didnt care cause I was head over heels for him, and I thought that it was a one time thing so it shouldnt happen again, and being that it was at the beggining of our relationship it didnt seem like such a big deal. But anyways I was looking through his phone and I found that he was texting his ex gf, and the first text i came upon was one where she said to him "I feel that everytime we hang out we have to have sex." I was completely shocked when I saw this, and when he got out of the shower, I yelled at him and left. But the thing that got me the most was that after I yelled at him he didnt even run after me, he didnt even care that I left it seemed. So a few days later my worst fear was confirmed. He had slept with her multiple times. it made me so mad, espcially seeing as how a day before me and him broke up we had slept together. Well I broke up with him, and for the longest time i wanted to get back with him, but I had to hold my grounds. I was still completely in love with him but how could I love someone that would do that to me. Well about a week and a half after me and him broke up he had a new gf. the one who he cheated on me with. I was so upset, but it just showed me the kinda person he really is.

I know that you still love your ex but you see what he thinks of you. I mean he breaks your heart, and uses you. I mean he is an asshole, a complete asshole. You deserve someone that will treat you like the princess you are. You can do way better than that low life piece of ****, and if he wants the ugly *** ginger ***** then let him have her. Cause if thats wat he wants then you know you can do WAY better than him.

But the end to my story is that he and his new gf started going out, then about 3 months later they broke up. and he is still begging me to come back to him, but i have moved on, and i couldnt be happier.

Just keep your head up, its gonna hurt for now but your heart will heal. And i think that its wonderful that you and your mom can be open with eachother, thats a great thing. And you know most people are such hippacrits, if they leave bad comments cause you are just doing what everybody else in the world does. I mean i have sex all the time. haha

This is a different answer to most here so bear with me He changed because everything was and is on a plate, he doesn't have to try he gets what he wants when he wants and he doesn't have to TRY! You in trying to make it better keep piling on the give give give and he simply takes takes takes. So Do your own thing! Gym brilliant go more frequently, got a job if not get one if you do have a job don't talk to him about it or your day etc. Bring back the mystery!! Sex is something he earns from now on OK Yes I know that seems harsh but you will survive and a shower head is a great way of relieving your tensions. You will likely go nuts and have a big "itch" but stick with it. Become distant I don't mean ignore him but sit in another chair read a book and just let him watch TV, say you are going out and just go for a walk on your own if necessary, don't go on at him just let the "doubts" slip into his mind, and trust me they will. Know neighbours talk to them and get involved with neighbourhood events become popular with other people, He will wonder what happened, what changed especially if you wear new clothes to go out in, get a new perfume etc and only wear it when you do your "special thing". he will accuse you of everything under the sun but smileat him and do not argue just tell him he is being silly and why would you want anyone else, after all he treats you so well doesn't he! See how this works he has power because you gave it away so reclaim the share you gave up and shatter his little world.

He's already going out with another girl and probably was before he broke up with you. Otherwise he would not be with her so quickly. He's a jerk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IT hurts to have someone break our heart when ours was faithful and loved them back. But you can't love if he won't do the same. Girls are competitive, a lot of them want what they can't have. SCREW HIM HUN, don't worry about how he feels or if he is unhappy. He screwed you over and hurt your heart. A real man would not hurt a women he loves. Personally, a man or boy to do that, is not mature and are cowards.

I'm not hating men here, just the ones that are jerks. I've been hurt so many times now, it's to the point if I were to be hurt again, it would probably only take me 2-3 days to get over it. They are not worth drying up our tear ducts over and making our eyes sore from crying so much from a broken heart they cause. I'm sure he's not sitting there sulking too, so think about that =) Some guys will say or do anything to a girl to use girls. I've even been asked to be a guys girlfriend once, just so he could keep me around for a good F***k... I thought it was the real deal, wow I was foolish!

Hope I helped.

Shake it off honey, a school girl crush, you will have many before Mr. Dreamy comes along. But not to sound like an old shrewd, stop having sex with the losers. The real one will wait until the time is right, when you really know each other and have real love and not just hot young passion for each other. He's not into you anymore, move on and date the next hot guy. Do something nice for yourself to get your mind off the heartbreak- get highlights, join the gym, buy a new outfit. One thing to always remember, he told you how he felt and you can't change it, you have to respect it and get over it quick.

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Deepest apologies that you are going through this time of sadness!

I have been through this kind of situation and i can understand how you are feeling!

Heart break is so difficult to go through but honey its just a part of growing up!

An he wont be the last TRUST ME!

It's even harder because you have slept with this guy so you have an emotional and physical bond.

In time your pain will heal. One day you will wake up and think i am not going to cry for this guy any more and realize that you deserve so much better! Hes a jerk for hurting you and there is guys out there for you that will love, Honor and respect you for who you are!

Hold you head up high girl and you will get through it with plenty of support from your friends and family.

i have learned from experience and sadly doing the same thing he did, he was only putting up a front to make you happy , but he didnt really care about you and if at one point he did love you he was getting over you while still being with you that is why it was so easy to move on. checking his email only sets you up for heart break my best advise is to stay off the internet for a while and stay busy watch a ton of movies go excersising give yourself time to heal. there might have been good memories but now its the past dont jump to a new bf to soon because you wont be commited to him you'll only be thinking about your ex while with the new bf, give yourself time to grieve then get a rebound someone for just sex then you'll be ready for a new relationship it will be hard but it will only make you stronger

Is He Dating Someone Else

Wow He's A JERK For Going Out With Someone Else After You..

I Guess You Just Gotta Try to Forget Him, I Mean He's Going Out With This Other Chick So Try.. .

Good-Luck.