So I've been dating this guy exclusively for a while..?

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And we're just learning to get to know each other.. I have so much fun with him, he makes me laugh and relaxed and is a guy I could see myself being with for a long time..

Everything was going great but just today, he said that he was applying for a job in California. We live in Seattle, which means if he got the job he'd be moving 2 states away. I have very strong feelings for him and I do want him to be happy and successful but at the same time I don't know how to feel about this.

He said he wouldn't be moving till maybe next year and he asked me to move with him if he got the job and I am flabbergasted. Does this mean that we're officially together because he's never asked me to be his girlfriend but he's asking me to move down with him?

He's always made hints that we're more than just friends and he always says things like saying "I'm so happy that you're here with me", etc.

I know this guy really likes me and I've never lived with a guy, so I'm just asking for some advice on how I should proceed with this.. No crap please, just light hearted advice.. Thank you!

Mr. Hat &amp; Clogs · Accepted Answer

Hmmm. Well for one, Seattle is an awesome city and would hate to leave it. Second, if your feelings are strong enough and you are serious and are considering marriage with this man and he feels the same then maybe you should move with him. Take some time to consider it, you clearly have a good amount of time to think about it. The third thing to explore is trying to get him to find a similar job in the Seattle area.
Good luck, and don't make any rash decisions.

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coolnerdpopular · Answer

striaght out ask him if u guys r a couple...whether or not u guys r or not U have to make the decison of moving with him because it seems like u guys rlly do like each other but dats moving 2 states away...so just make sure u put all of this into considereation be4 u make any big decisions

Anonymous · Answer

I think while the relationship status is probably clear to him, it's apparent that he hasn't made it clear to you.  So you need to sit down with him and get him to express in plain English where he thinks you guys stand and what he sees in your future.  Then you can put that into the equation in your head when you're deciding whether to pull up stakes and go with him.  Good luck!

Anonymous · Answer

It's so sweet of him to ask that. However you have to be clear of your status in his heart. Ask him! It's a big decision, think carefully.

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