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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

My girlfriend likes another guy?

Well, today went a bit worse than expected.

When this guy would come around, she would take my hand off of her side, then start kissing me when he leaves.

(Or it could be the fact that i haven't slept in a while, but it really seems that away.)

After she left I was walking home and that guy's little brother started talking sh*t about my pants falling down.

I started yelling at him, and his older brother came out. (The same guy)

We got in a fight, i threw him against a tree, and my girlfriend ran up and starting holding him.

After all that was sorted out, and found my lost tooth, me and him started talking and laughing. She wouldn't let me hold her hand or nothing when he was around.

But when me and my girlfriend left, she was holding on to me and kissing me. What the f*ck??

I'm considering confronting her about this but not to sure if I should.

Update:

Shayzees, it's not the first tooth that's been knocked out.

Daisy, thank you. Your information really helped me.

BJB, also thank you. Your post might of been what I needed to know if I should ask her or not.

Roger, you don't know me in person, so saying something over the internet isn't really saying much.

Ya, I'm going to ask her what's going on.

It's not a public affection thing, we pretty much got naked in a park. :P

The thing is, I haven't been with a girl since I got hit by a car a few months ago, and wasn't sure how to treat this situation.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I definitely think you should confront her. You won't find out unless you ask her, right? I think I'd be more concerned about a missing tooth...

  • puran
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    owh chris i be attentive to how u felt..truly of telling u to recover from this sense, i desire to point u to in trouble-free terms be your self. attempt and ask a sprint bout this guy, and spot what she likes plenty approximately him. the main serious element is in simple terms be your self, cuz that's what she's involved in interior the 1st place. I comprehend ur jealousy yet in no way ever enable it get between u n ur gurl. If no longer, she's gonna think of that ur no longer properly worth it besides. yet shop on ur feet, what i recommend is shop updating on ur gf's interest, and consistent with hazard ask ur pals or smwan u have faith to maintain an eye fixed on them. sturdy success!

  • 1 decade ago

    You just gotta ask her what's going on. Because at the end of the day, she might just be pissed at you for fighting with this guy, but there could be smoething more to it. So just ask her :)

    It's worth a try right!

  • 1 decade ago

    Confront her, but try not to be too angry at her. Perhaps she isn't a fan of affection in public, perhaps she doesn't like violence. I don't know, I can't be sure from what's been said.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yep defo confront her she's acting suspicious hun.Dont ever let a girl break your heart you deserve better than that.Dont let her take control you must do it show her you wont stand being messed about =) Goodluck sweet i hope things turn out the way you want =) xxx

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Definitely ask her what the hell is going on!

    Try not to be angry. Just tell her you're confused by what's happening and if she wants to be with him instead of you then she needs to tell you like a decent person instead of mess around with stupid games.

    If she says she wants to be with YOU, then tell her you expect her to show that you are together when you're around this guy, and not to act like she's keeping her options open!

    If she says she wants to be with him, let her go and thank your lucky stars that you had the guts to stop it early instead of being humiliated by her in future.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You sound like you have balls, I suggest you start using them. First instincts are typically correct, and I commend you for not ignoring them. If your girlfriend is not supporting you, and concerned with you first, then it's typically a lost cause. Confront her, corner her, do what you need to do to put your mind at ease.

    Sidenote: Lack of sleep doesn't make people less rational. If anything, it makes us more aware of what our conscious chooses to ignore.

  • 1 decade ago

    You should! its not right! if she only acts like this around him, then she does like him, and its not an issue about public affection. you need to sit down and talk to her. she needs to know what shes doing to you! i promise that if you let this go on, it will end in heartbreak. tell her what youve noticed and are worriyng about. if she tells you off, then you dont need her. you have to do whats right for YOU, not her. good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe, she's just a bit embarrassed. Maybe she knows him or related? Becauseisn't exactly flirting and just sounds embarembarrassed. I wouldn't worry too much but i would still talk to her.

  • 1 decade ago

    damn thats wack as hell

    i say yes, confront her about it

    or when she lets go ask her why

    or kiss her when hes around and confront her then

    be like go to that ***** if you want him so much

    kick her *** to the cuurb

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