Is it bad for a married man to go to a strip club?

Only if he lies about it...or his wife is upset by it.

Personally, I couldn't care less. But our boundaries aren't nearly as rigid as a lot of couples' are.

It never bothered me and when we were first dating he even asked me if I'd be upset one night before him and the boys went. I thought it was precious he'd actually thought about it and how I might feel about it <3

Would you like your wife going to a male strip club?

I can't say I wuold be happy if my husband did this. I would be less disturbed if he went with a group of friends for a laugh, than if he was going there on his own to drool over the girls, but I can't say I would be thrilled in either situation.

The answer depends on the quality of your relationship with your wife. If she is painfully insecure and possessive of every breath you take, then going to strip clubs would be a huge problem in your household. Her understanding of love equals to ownership, therefore you will never hear the end of it, if you go. In my own marriage, both of us have freedom to do whatever we wish to and be honest about it with each other. And after staying happily married to my husband for 19 years now, I do know my man loves me and has no plans to hurt me in any way or form. And to achieve that, I did not try to squeeze the very life of him with my silly restrictions on his freedom. Respect him and yourself, and you will see that he won't disappoint you.

Not at all....that being said, I'm not a big fan of strip clubs....I think it's corny to pay some chick to act interested in me where in other environments, she very well might be....

Depends on the dynamic of the marriage.

With my fiancee, I am under the understanding that seeking out any form of sexual stimulation from other women would be a violation of our relationship dynamic - and I'm fine with this, for the simple reason that I am highly aware of the fact that I would be made uncomfortable if she did the same with other men.

Other couples aren't as possessive of each other sexually as we are - for some of them, this might be no big deal at all.

It's not bad if he goes because it's some guys bachelor party etc., but if he's initiating the trips himself then I'd worry that there was a problem.

If it bothers his wife it's going to be bad.

Doesn't matter if it makes sense or not, some chicks are cool with ,others aren't and there's no changing her mind.

I send him with $30 in ones and a a designated driver

If he's going with his friends for a good time or a bachelor party it's ok.

If he's going simply because he wants the sexual stimulation, that's a bad thing.