I have a transvestitic fetish, and don't know how to tell my girlfriend?

1st is this relationship on the verge of getting engaged?

if yes then you need to share this & get her feelings before you propose, because I have heard from many men who waited till after marriage to reveal this side of their personality & how it upset their wives & ruined some marriages.

I will tell you revealing this about yourself is never easy, I know because I enjoy wearing lingerie, spandex & pantyhose. I shared my interests with my girlfriend about 3 months before I proposed. When she accepted I was so grateful to find a women who accepted this part of me. We've been married for 7 years now.

So please give her a chance to understand & you need to be ready for some soul searching questions she may have. Just remember be patient with her if she needs some time to come to terms with this.

If she truly loves you she'll understand & accept you for who you are.

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You're not the only one to have a "fetish" for wearing nylons etc..

Hell, I'm a long time married cross dresser and I've been dressing and wearing PROPER hosiery (full fashioned seamed hosiery) not dumb pantyhose..

So if you haven't got the "gonads" to tell her, you just as well give up on the idea...

I do hope that if you do as you say you're doing - wearing stocks, that you at least shave your legs...!!!!. Duh.....!!

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well if you think she'll think its weird or odd (which it isn't btw, you like what you like, who's to judge?) you should ask her to play a game with you and have her tell you her most secret desire or fantasy or fetish and promise her that you'll tell her yours and as a bonus promise each other to act out whatever fantasy you have.

Everyone has a secret something they think is weird that turns them on, if you both are sharing it won't seem so difficult to say. You never know it could end up being a pretty fun night. If it makes you feel any better, i suggested the same thing to my bf, it turns out that he has a thing for ribbons, don't ask me what he does with them he just really likes ribbons, like red, silky ribbons.lol. Anyway hope that helps.

Honesty is always the best policy. If she can't handle it as this is apart of who you are then shes just not the one. But little at a time, like baby steps are always better with such issues. good luck!

One of the best ways to do this is to both agree to share a fantasy. That way, you each are becoming vulnerable and giving something up.

Promise not to laugh, and to accept one another.

Good luck!

i heard of a case where this guy would do that but in the basement of his house and after that he got horny and would bang his girlfriend while she was sleeping. The girl did not know about it but when she found out she dumped him because she thought he was gay even though he wasn't. i suggest talking to your girlfriend about it she might freak out but if you talk about it she might understand.

Are you sure you are not gay or bi?

Just ask hypothetically.Or try to take it slow introducing it to her!She will not help but to understand.

just tell her . a lot of girls will be cool about it.

just tell her gently