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HOw can I apologize, I accidently hurt my crush?
My crush handed me something and I Accidently hurt him on his arm...I felt soooooooooooooo embarassed and didn't say anything. Its been 2 weeks and I can't get over the fact that I was too agressive with him but I didn't make him bleed or bruise...I felt so bad tho seriously...I hate even killings spiders..cuz I feel bad and let them wander.
I was to apologize but I don't know how..or if i should even apologize since its been already a few weeks.
My heart was torn, cause he prolly things I am too agressive with him...so now he is talkin to someone else.
11 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
If he stops liking u cuz u hurt him a little on the arm without him even bleeding or bruising he is a total weak kiddie whos juevos havent dropped yet. Im a guy and i think he should grow up and forget it. It was an honest accident and if hes gonna pout then he shud cry to him mommy. To me his actions are stupid and immature.
- LizLv 41 decade ago
I don't think that you hurting him was the reason why he's talking to someone else. Guys don't get hurt that easily. If it didn't make him bleed or bruise, then it probably didn't hurt him that much, if at all.
If it makes you feel any better, just go up to him whenever you next see him and just calmly say "hey sorry about hurting you by the way, I didn't really mean to and I still feel bad about it even though it's been two weeks". He'll probably accept you apology and things will go back to normal.
If you're worried about him talking to someone else because you think that he thinks you're too aggressive, you're wrong. He's probably just clueless and doesn't even know that you're crushing on him. Send him some signals by flirting with him or just straight out tell him you're crushing on him. You'll see that that'll change things.
- 1 decade ago
I totally agree with joke4life12. When you do apologize or at least tell him your feelings, don't apologize about the arm. That will seem kind of dumb coming from you and very very pointless. It doesn't matter now, after two weeks. He will think you're weird or something.
But DO tell him how you feel. I couldn't agree more with that line of speech joke4life12 gave ya there. I laughed at the last part though, haha. "but i... i.... i think i love you too much to let you go that easily."
Make sure you tell him that you are a kind person, you aren't as aggressive as he may think you are, and you didn't mean to hurt him but you felt so embarrassed and didn't say anything. Do mention that you were embarrassed. That will turn it out, and make it seem as to why you never said anything, apologized for it, or even at least briefly said sorry as any other person would. I hope you good luck, if you can please message me, I want to see how this turns out. Thanks.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
"My heart was torn, cause he prolly things I am too agressive with him...so now he is talkin to someone else."
No, he's talking to someone else because you avoided him for 2 weeks. It wasn't a big deal. You should have just been like "Oops! Sorry about that!" when it happened, and it would have been all good.
You can start talking to him again and try to win him back, but if he's into that other girl it's best not to pry and just move on.
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- TheresaLv 45 years ago
First of all, you dont "accidentally" flirt. You knew what was going on but you thought nothing of it or the consequences. You were just having fun, but in the end you ended up seriously hurting your relationship with your best friend, be careful next time.
- 1 decade ago
If you didnt draw blood or leave a bruise then it wasnt that big of a deal, he has probably already forgotten about it. If you feel that bad about it just bring it up casually next time you talk. just ask him how his arm is and say that your sorry about hurting him...
- 1 decade ago
dont apologize about the arm
when you talk to him
apologize that you ahvent said anything to him in weeks and explain your feelings to him
tell him in these exact words "i kno you may think it sounds stupid but im a very passionate person and when you handed me (item he gave you) i didnt mean to hurt you on the arm and i felt so bad about it, i figured that you wouldn't want to talk to me again but i... i.... i think i love you too much to let you go that easily"
add that in at anytime
Source(s): love doctor at work here lol - Anonymous1 decade ago
It is never too late to say you are sorry.
I believe you already do know what to say, but you really want to let it slide.
Your conscience is telling you to get busy.
Apologize.
- 1 decade ago
he's talking to another girl cause he's ready to start dating, she probaly gave him her phone number, in which you refused to do, you did'nt hurt him physically, you hurt him emotionally, and that's worst
- 1 decade ago
wow he must be a pansy. just tell him he can ruff you up back if he want's hint hint