She is not interested in my family events any more...what to do?

Expound....what goes on at your family events?

well does she have a good reason for not being interested in family events? I would suggest you go by yourself and when you come home remind her everyone misses her and was hoping to see her and tell her what a blast you had and maybe she'll start going again. maybe she just needs a break.

My ex made me go to every family event on HIS side. Every vacation was at HIS parents house - I had no say. After years of this, I finally told him to go by himself. I had peace and quiet at home!

You need to expand on your situation as to what really has been going on.

Is there a reason she is not interested? Has someone hurt her feelings? If not, she does not respect you or she would be there for you if not your family.

I suggest you take her out and wine and dine her and dialogue with her about this problem you might be having. Remember you are not doing this to convince her to see things your way. You are only trying to understand the issue. It might hurt so be ready and dont accuse and be supportive. Remember you have a family and its her. The others can live with or with out you.

Ask her if she is still interested in being part of your family.

find out why

maybe your family is too dysfunctional for her

are you married or just living together

she doesn't have to attend everything.........she probably has enough with her own family

theres got to be a reason... did any of your family members make her feel uncomfortable? or maybe someone she doesn't get along with?

You mean your side of the family ?

If she doesn't feel like going, then do it yourself.

perhaps your family does not welcome her to the events?

perhaps it is a stressful, dysfunctional gathering that she would rather avoid.

why dont you ask her if there is something more to it.