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He's bi and won't admit it. Slightly irritated.?
I have a Friend who has had several partners, some male and some female. He will date a guy for a while, tell everyone he's gay, then split a few weeks later. Then if he meets a girl, he will date, tells everyone he's straight then ends up splitting. Depending on the sex of his partner he is either gay or straight, he won't admit he likes both.
I'm now getting irritated by this it's been going on for years so it's not like hes experimenting then made a decision. I also feel he's deceiving his partners by saying his sexuality is one thing but hiding all the previous partners from them. I'm not bothered what his sexuality is, it's the claiming hes one thing then changing his mind a couple of weeks later.
Why doesn't he just say he's bi and leave it at that?
He doesn't mind admitting hes gay if he has a boyfriend, he just omits hes had girlfriends in the past and vice versa. It seems he wants to be either straight or gay but won't accept he could be into both sexes.
7 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
ughhhhh....
your friend is a moron and a bad thing
to the lgbt community
did u ask him y he doesnt want to admit
he's bisexual?
maybe hes scared of biphobia?
- 1 decade ago
Why are you so concerned? He's obviously having troubles figuring things out, and in such a situation it is never a good idea to push! There really isn't that much of a problem here, what might mean experimentation to you could merely be a journey of self discovery for him!
Source(s): Live and let live; to each his own! As long as he has hurt nobody, he has done no real damage! - scrubslover12Lv 41 decade ago
You can't force anyone to admit that they're bisexual. Maybe he's scared to come out, or just embarrassed. Many people are, the way a lot of people in our society look at bisexuals, gays, and lesbians these days.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I do the same thing. I know I'm bisexual, I just say the label I feel like that day.
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- goldwingLv 71 decade ago
Sorry, I don't understand your irritation. If he bothers you, avoid him...very easily done. I, for one, do not like dishonest friends...and this one is dishonest.
- Pat GLv 51 decade ago
he's obviuosly content jumping back and forth, so let it be and accept him for who he is instead if who he sleeps with.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
That would make me mad too.
